Amy Durham

What's In a Name? Guest-Blogging!

2012-02-16T10:00:00.000-05:00

Today, I'm thrilled to be guest-posting at the cyber-home of YA author, Tess Grant. Today we're talking about naming characters and the thought process that goes into assigning a moniker to those people running around in our heads.

Come join us!

Listening to Their Voices: What's Really in Their Hearts

2012-02-13T09:30:00.000-05:00

My blog was silent all last week. I wear three main hats…parent, writer, and music teacher… and last week I wore my parent hat and myteacher hat pretty much exclusively. It happens that way sometimes.

But it’s interesting how sometimes those three hats“intersect” in unexpected ways.

Last week was the annual KY Music Educators Conference, andin conjunction with that, several ensembles of All-State musicians cometogether to practice and present performances. One of my high school studentswas selected for the Sr. High All-State Chorus, and my oldest son was selectedfor the Jr. High All-State Chorus. So, in addition to attending the teachers’conference, I was also the parent and teacher of an all-state singer. (Pausing here for proud moment!)

At my son’s Jr. High All-State concert, the group of 200+singers performed the world premier of “Listen to My Voice”, by Amir Zaheri. Mr. Zaheri was the pianist accompanyingthe choir (as he’d been the year before), and this piece of music had beencommissioned by the KY Music Educators Association especially for the Jr. HighAll-State Choir that my son was a member of.

It was at my son’s concert where my three “hats”intersected. There I was, sitting in the Kentucky Center for the Arts, enjoyingthe marvelous performance of my son’s All-State Choir, when they began “Listento My Voice”. The pianointroduction was beautiful… sweetly haunting. And then came the lyrics. I won’t print them here word-for-word, because I’d neverwant to infringe on Mr. Zaheri’s copyright, but I can paraphrase the message ofthe song. “Love me… accept me…value me… don’t you know that’s what I need from you?” I was moved to tears.

As a parent of a teenager, I know that’s what he most wantsfrom the people in his life, whether it be family, friends, or teachers. As a teacher, I know that despite thefact that teens act otherwise, they really DO want to please you and have yourapproval, and not having it affects them deeply. And as a YA writer, it’s something I strive to portray in mystories. Even the mostwell-adjusted teen from the most normal, loving family struggles with theseissues. They all experience thosefeelings of being unloved, unaccepted, and undervalued. It’s one of the thingsI most want to address in my books.

And at that concert, while my son and the rest of the choirsang “Listen to My Voice”, those feelings were expressed so beautifully through the mediumof music. The beauty of Mr. Zaheri’s melody… the poetry of his lyrics… broughtto life the very heart of young people. The message wasn’t lost on them. And it wasn’t lost on me.

Sometimes my three hats seem to be so far apart. Thank you Amir Zaheri for showing methey overlap… in a big way.

Music expresses that which cannot be said

and on which it is impossible to be silent.

~ Victor Hugo

Six Sentence Sunday: Layla's New Friend

2012-02-05T06:00:00.000-05:00

It's that time again... Six Sentence Sunday!

Thanks in advance for the encouraging comments! I look forward to hopping around to your blogs, as well!

Last week, we saw Lucas and Layla's first touch, and the way she was affected by simply shaking his hand. Today, we're taking a look at the next chapter, in which Layla and her new friend Jessie are having a conversation about Luke. Layla doesn't want to seem too interested, but she's having a tough time with that! The following is the exchange between Layla and Jessie, when Layla nonchalantly asks how old Lucas is.

"He's a senior." The warning bell rang and the lobby began to empty, as Jessie and I headed into the classroom to take our seats. "And I heard he's single again."

I should not be interested in this. Yet, I couldn't stop the next question from leaving my mouth. "Again?"

Be sure to visit the official Six Sentence Sunday site and find lots of other talented authors. You can also follow along on Twitter with #sixsunday!

And don't forget, ONCE AGAIN is available now for download at Amazon, B&N, and Smashwords . Print version is coming soon!

A Tour of Sky Cove

2012-02-03T13:19:00.000-05:00

My YA Paranormal, ONCE AGAIN, is set in the fictional town of Sky Cove, a coastal town in Maine. In my mind, Sky Cove is a vivid, alive place, so for today's blog, I thought it might be fun to take you on a "tour" of the town, and show you how it "looks" to me!

The picture to the right is actually Camden, Maine, an actual city in Maine that I reference several times in the book. I love the colors on the buildings, and the beautiful view of the harbor in the background. In my mind, downtown Sky Cove looks much the same!

This is a shot of the Atlantic Ocean from the coast of Maine. I love the rocky shoreline, and the way the water fades into the sky at the horizon. I pictured the beach just this way when writing Layla and Luke's scenes at the ocean.

Layla lives in a neighborhood within the town limits of Sky Cove. I described her house as a square, two-story brick house, similar to the one in this photo. When I look at this house, I imagine the scenes between her and Luke that take place both at the front door and in the driveway.

Luke's house is outside of town, on White Bridge Rd. If you've read the book you already know that his mother, Gwen, is a colorful character, and one of her most prominent attributes is that of a "nurturer". It makes sense that her home would appear well taken care of and nurtured! This yellow cottage is just how I imagined Luke's home!

And finally, Emerson House. Imagine the little house in the picture to the right restored somewhat, with a fresh coat of white paint and a bit of landscaping. Emerson House of Antiques is central to the plot of ONCE AGAIN, and in my mind it looks much this way... a simple, white house that was once home to a happy young family and now is a place to showcase items that have been seasoned by the passage of time.

I hope you enjoyed this "tour" through Sky Cove, Maine! If you haven't read the book yet, perhaps the visuals here will peak your interest!

Happy reading and writing!

Insecurity as Inspiration? Yes!

2012-02-02T11:48:00.001-05:00

Recently I did a guest-interview on a fellow author's blog. One of the questions I answered was about where my inspiration for ONCE AGAIN came from. As I thought about how to answer that question, I decided it might be worthy of an entire blog post here at my cyber-home.

So... here goes!

As most of you know, I write YA fiction. I also read it. I love being able to revisit the excitement (and, yes, sometimes the heartbreak) of my youth... and also being able to talk to my students or my teenage son about a book we've all read. When I was plotting ONCE AGAIN, there was no particular person or event that sparked the inspiration. The "core" of the story came from my own memories of being sixteen.

ONCE AGAIN is a YA paranormal romance. There is a reincarnation mystery, complete with an evil-doer and a jealous ex-girlfriend. But the most basic element of the story is the young heroine's belief in love.

As I thought back to my teenage years, it occurred to me what a hopeless romantic I was. Truthfully, I've never really gotten over that! But I remember being fifteen, sixteen, seventeen years old and spending long hours thinking about my future-husband and how marvelous our love would be. Even though I had no idea who he was, I just knew he was out there waiting for me! I realize how sappy and girlie that sounds, but let's remember, I was a teenage girl at the time! And so is Layla, the heroine of ONCE AGAIN.

(By the way... I did find my true love and get my happy ending, so all the mushy romanticism of my youth paid off!)

But the course of true love doesn't normally run smooth, so Layla's journey isn't easy. There are many things standing in the way of the happiness she wants to find with Lucas. Of course, there's the danger surrounding the mystery and drama of their reincarnation, but there's also her own insecurities and hang-ups to overcome. Layla's like most teenage girls... a bit insecure and a hopeless romantic... trying desperately to find herself and her path on the confusing roads of adolescence.

Even though there's a fantastical element to the story, my hope is that it speaks to the people who read it... young kids who are at the same point in their lives, or young-at-hearts like me who remember those feelings from our own teenage years.

Adolescence is hard... but it's not impossible!

Happy reading and writing!

Guest Blogging: Stephanie Campbell

2012-01-31T21:15:00.001-05:00

One more guest blog this week! Still celebrating the release of my Young Adult paranormal novel, ONCE AGAIN, today I'm hanging out with author Stephanie Campbell. Come by and say hi!

ONCE AGAIN is available in eBook at Amazon, B&N, and Smashwords (links to the right). Print version will be available soon!

Happy reading and writing!

Guest Blogging: Never Too Late For Romance

2012-01-31T10:00:00.000-05:00

I'm still celebrating the release of ONCE AGAIN, my debut YA Paranormal novel! Today, I'm honored to visit author Donna McDonald at her blog, Never Too Late For Romance. I hope you'll stop by and see what Donna and I are talking about!

And just a reminder... ONCE AGAIN is now available for download at Amazon, B&N, and Smashwords. If you know young readers... or young-at-heart readers... who love YA fiction, I'd be most grateful if you'd pass the word.

Thanks to everyone for all the support and encouragement.

Happy reading and writing.

Guest Blogging: My Muse's Musings

2012-01-30T08:30:00.000-05:00

In celebration of the release of my debut YA novel, ONCE AGAIN, I'm guest-blogging with Teresa Reasor, at My Muse's Musings. Come by and join in the conversation!

And don't forget, ONCE AGAIN is available for download at Amazon, B&N, and Smashwords. Print version should be available soon! Do you know a teen who loves to read? If so, let them know about ONCE AGAIN!

Happy reading and writing!

Six Sentence Sunday: ONCE AGAIN

2012-01-29T06:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome back for another edition of Six Sentence Sunday! Thanks in advance for your comments and encouragement. I look forward to visiting your blogs as well.

Today's snippet comes from ONCE AGAIN, my YA paranormal which is NOW AVAILABLE (happy dance!) for download at Amazon, B&N, and Smashwords. When we left off last week, Layla had encountered some not-so-nice guys in the parking lot after her first day of school. Lucas intervened and has her all confused about his motivations. The following six lines come from the conversation that immediately follows.

“Lucas Ellis, by the way.” He extended his hand. “I realizedI didn’t tell you my last name in lit class this morning.”

“Layla Bradford.” I put my hand in his, awed by the welcomingfeeling that enveloped not only my fingers and palm, but my entire body. Thetouch of his skin on mine sent excitement coursing through me, and a random thoughtwent through my mind – hadn’t I known itwould be this way? - though I knew it was impossible.

Be sure to visit the official Six Sunday site, and find lots of other talented authors. You can also follow on Twitter with the hashtag #sixsunday.

Happy reading and writing!

Accomplishment! ONCE AGAIN is now available!

2012-01-26T11:48:00.000-05:00

There’s something about accomplishing a goal that you setfor yourself that is satisfying in a way no other accomplishment is. I felt it when I completed both semesters ofFreshman college English as a senior in high school… with an “A”, no less. I felt it when gave birth to my first child…a 10 pound 2 ounce baby boy… withOUT a C-section. And I feel that same sense of accomplishmenttoday.

At 11 years old I decided I wanted to be a writer. At age 29, I decided it was time to startmaking that dream happen. Today, almost 9 years later, my first novel ONCEAGAIN, is available in eBook format at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, andSmashwords.

It’s been a long journey of studying, learning, and practicingthe craft of writing… networking with other writers… and making writing apriority in my full, busy life. Severalyears ago I found my “voice” in young adult fiction, and the inspiration forONCE AGAIN was born. And this isn’t theend of the journey. It’s just the nextstep. But it feels good to finally gethere, to be able to take the next step.

So, it’s with great joy that I introduce to you LaylaBradford and Lucas Ellis, the main characters of ONCE AGAIN. Just like me, theytake a journey, and over the course of their story they learn a lot aboutthemselves. I hope you’ll love them asmuch as I do.

ONCE AGAIN - available at:

Amazon (Kindle)

Barnes & Noble (Nook)

Smashwords

The print version of ONCE AGAIN will be available soonfrom Amazon.

Thanks for coming along with me on this journey. And stay tuned… there’s more to come! I'm nowhere near finished!

Announcing: CANYONLAND PRESS

2012-01-25T08:48:00.000-05:00

I'm excited to be a part of a brand new eMagazine for readers... CANYONLAND PRESS!

Canyonland Press is a FREE, bi-monthly publication, premiering on February 1. It is the collaborative effort of a number of authors, from various genres of fiction. Our goal is to connect with readers, promote reading as a valuable activity, and highlight quality books and authors who can meet the needs of today's reader.

What drew me to this opportunity was the idea that this publication would be directed at readers. There are lots of opportunity out there for writers to connect with each other, and it's easy sometimes to forget that we need to extend our reach to the readers that embrace us. Canyonland Press is a way for us to give back to the people who make our dreams of writing a reality... readers! Expect articles, book recommendations, and entertaining pieces that will appeal to readers of many different genres of fiction.

During our launch month, readers will have the opportunity to enter a drawing for a new Kindle! Details are on our website, and I hope you'll take a moment to check it out and spread the word! You can also follow us on Twitter (@canyonlandpress) and Facebook.

Join us!

Happy reading and writing everyone!

Six Sentence Sunday: ONCE AGAIN

2012-01-22T07:08:00.002-05:00

It's Six Sentence Sunday! Thanks to all of you who stop by and comment. It's my privilege to stop by your blogs as well. Be sure to take a look at the official Six Sunday site, and find lots of other talented authors who share their work each Sunday. You can also follow along on Twitter with the hashtag #sixsunday.

This week Layla, the heroine from my soon-to-be-released YA novel ONCE AGAIN, is in the school parking lot after her first day at a new high school. She encounters a group of guys, and as sometimes happens, one of them makes an... ahem... inappropriate comment toward her. But never fear, the hero, Lucas, witnesses the incident and takes matters into his own hands. Layla's a bit confounded, since she just me Lucas and he didn't exactly seem thrilled about it. She decides that his "rescue" of her from the not-s0-nice boys is just a coincidence... or is it?

"Congratulations, you just made yourself look like a pig in front of half the school."

Never in my life had anyone defended me like this. The fact that I'd barely met him made it all the more unbelievable. The fact that he was freaking gorgeous made it completely unbelievable.

Then he turned to me.

"Come on," he said, taking my hand and pulling me toward my car.

ONCE AGAIN: Cover & Blurb

2012-01-16T08:45:00.000-05:00

Today I'm excited to share with you the cover and "blurb" for my upcoming debut, ONCE AGAIN!

Reincarnation sucks! Unless it comes with a cute guy. That’s what sixteen year-old Layla Bradford discovers when she moves to Sky Cove, Maine, a small-town she thought was ordinary, but turns out to be an episode of “Cold Case” on steroids.

Layla doesn’t want to fit in; she wants to blend in and stay out of the spotlight. But the spotlight is where she winds up when she catches the eye of school cross-country star and all-around-nice-guy Lucas Ellis. She quickly learns there’s more at stake than high school reputations when she and Lucas discover they are the reincarnations of a young married couple from the mid-1800s who suffered a horrible tragedy at the hands of a madman who was never brought to justice. After a series of frightening visions show Layla and Lucas glimpses of their past-lives, they realize that the villain of their previous existence has also been reincarnated, in the form of a fellow high school student who targets them with teenage pranks that soon turn dangerous. As they grow closer, will Layla and Lucas be able
to uncover the truth in time to stop the same tragedy from unfolding once again?

Stay tuned for details on the release date for the eBook version, with print version to follow!

Six Sentence Sunday: ONCE AGAIN

2012-01-15T08:30:00.000-05:00

Welcome back to Six Sentence Sunday! I appreciate so much those of you who stop by and comment, and it's my privilege to stop by your blogs as well. Be sure to take a look at the official Six Sunday site, and find lots of other talented authors who share their work each Sunday. You can also follow along on Twitter with the hashtag #sixsunday.

Today's snippet comes from my soon-to-be-released debut YA novel, ONCE AGAIN. In chapter 1, our heroine, Layla, is starting her junior year of high school at a brand new school. She arrives right on time, hoping to be able to go straight to her first class without having to try to make conversation with people she didn't know. However, the front lobby of the school is the "hang-out", and when she steps through the door, everyone's eyes turn to her. As she makes her way toward the hallway, she encounters a group of kids who eye her somewhat warily. Is one of them the villain? That question is answered later!

One boy greeted me with a nod of his head that I was sure he believed to be very suave and cool. He wasn't much taller than me, and I was five-three. Another guy, this one average height, looked at me with guarded, narrowed eyes, as if trying to figure out who I was. Two girls, clearly the cheerleader type with their school-spirit shirts and ponytails tied with matching bows, looked at me with judgment in their eyes.

I sighed inwardly. Some things were the same no matter where you lived.

Thanks again for stopping by! I look forward to seeing you again soon!

Teresa Reasor discusses TIMELESS

2012-01-13T07:45:00.000-05:00

Friday the 13th is a lucky day for Teresa Reasor. She married her husband, Danny, on Friday the 13th, and this year the two of them will celebrate 37 years of marriage. So, it's only fitting to welcome her here on Friday, January 13th, to discuss her latest release, Timeless, a paranormal romantic suspense set in the sweeping hills of Scotland.

AMY: Thanks for stopping by today, Teresa. It's always a pleasure to host my good friends here in my little corner of the cyber-world. I know it's difficult to condense an entire book into a few sentences, but since we want to focus on your new release, Timeless, can you give us a bit of a summary of the book?

TERESA: Timelessis about Regan and Quinn, two people from opposite ends of the world who aredrawn to Loch Maree, Scotland, where an ancient stone circle has been unearthed. Drawn by the promise of success, once on the site, theyexperience paranormal events that point them toward a discovery of suchmagnitude it could cause World War III should it become common knowledge. Butthere’s a personal issue involved as well. Centuries ago, a couple lost theirchild and each other because of the greed for power the monoliths represent.Regan and Quinn discover they have a chance to right the wrongs of the past and save thesepeople from heartache. They make the decision to risk themselves to save thesepeople and, in the process, stop mankind from destroying itself.

AMY: This is your second book set in Scotland, your historical romance Highland Moonlight being the first. Why Scotland?

TERESA: Scotlandhas a history as old as time. It’s a magical place. You can stand on itsbattlefields and hear the ring of broadswords. You can boat on its lochs, andwatch eddies ripple across the water and imagine prehistoric serpents raisingtheir heads. You can stroll through its castles and stand in the footsteps ofpeople who determined its history. What could be more magical and inspiringthan all that?

AMY: You traveled to Scotland in 2010. Can you describe a bit of your trip, and tell us if your experiences there affected the writing of Timeless?

TERESA: Thetrip definitely affected the story. In May of 2010 Mitsi Bennett, a fellowauthor and I traveled to Scotland. For eleven wonderful days we drove from Edinburgh all the way around theperimeter of Scotland and back again.

Duringour trip, we visited twenty –eight different castles, including EileanDonan, the castle on the front ofmy book Highland Moonlight (picture below). We visited Culloden, Loch Ness, and LochMaree.

During the trip I took 1600photos and posted many of them on my blog (there are multiple posts) witha run down on the history of each place. LochMaree is visited by thousands of people each year. There are areas where peoplecan camp out, mountain climb, (Mt. Slioch is one of them), hike, fish and boat.

Thelegends associated with the area interested me and I incorporated a great manyof them into my story. Isle Maree (Eilean Ma’ Ruibhe) is really there, as isthe small henge located on it, Witches Point, the wishing tree, and a well thatwas supposed to cure mental illness. They used to do bull sacrifices on theisland as well.

Withall those different things coming together in one place, what better locationto set a paranormal story?

AMY: I learned a great deal about diving and archaeology while reading Timeless. Tell us about the research that you did to prepare for this book and some of the interesting people you met in the course of your research.

TERESA: Ijoined two different list serves while I was researching for the book. One waspopulated by Marine Archaeologists who were absolutely the very best sharingtheir expertise in lift bags, scuba diving, and artifact recovery andpreservation. The Sub Arch people kept my divers alive throughout the book.

Theother one was a list serve for Saturation Divers where I met a fellow who becamemy mentor for all things to do with SAT diving. In Scotland any study orrecovery of archaeological significance in deep water is done using saturationdiving. Because some of my monoliths had toppled and slid down into a trenchnearly 250 feet deep, I had to have a saturation diver hero to help recoverthem. Corey (the SAT diver from the list serve) even proofread my chapters dealing with SAT diving to make sure Igot them right.

Iwill never be able to thank these people enough.

Oneof my favorite authors is Michael Crichton. He had a wonderful flare for takingtechnology based in reality and turning it on its head. Look at JurassicPark—well I don’t need to say anything else. He made you believe inpossibilities. Well my idea was to take something fantastic and tie it tonumerous grains of reality and blend them into something a reader would find amazing toread. I hope I’vedone that.

AMY: Finally, every author has a personal attachment to each book and the characters in it. Tells us about the personal journey of writing Timeless and how you feel about these two characters.

TERESA: Mypersonal journey as a writer during the book has been amazing. I’ve had tostretch my creative muscles more with this book than any other. I’ve lovedcoming up with scenes that the reader is going to say, “How cool is that!” Or Ihope they will!

Quinnand Regan became family to me during the writing of the book. From conceptionto the completion of the manuscript they were in my life three and a halfyears. Their fears and frustrations became mine. You have to put yourself inyour characters’ shoes and experience the world through their eyes, senses, andemotions. There’s an intimacy that builds between the author and theircharacters because of it, and an attachment. I cried when I finished the book,because it was like saying good-bye to close friends.

AMY: I'd like to thank Teresa for joining us here today, and giving us a glimpse into her life as an author, and a preview of her new release! Timeless is available for download at several retailers, including Amazon and Barnes and Noble. The print book will be available in the near future. On a personal note, I'd like to thank Teresa for the wonderful opportunity to read the book before publication. She said she wanted me to "critique", but truly, the book needed no criticism! Teresa is a wonderful friend and an immensely talented author, and I highly recommend that everyone who loves romance, mystery, and a beautiful setting treats themselves to this book!

Happy reading and writing!

Judge a Book By It's Cover

2012-01-11T08:00:00.000-05:00

Being around kids as much as I am gives me the chance to do "market research". It's a very formal and scientific process... which consists of me casually throwing out questions to my students about the books they read.

Today's question: "When you're in the library or a book store, what makes you choose a book?"

The overwhelming answer: The cover and the blurb.

Not that this is any big surprise. We've all known this for a long time. The cover is important. The blurb is important. But it really brought it home to hear it directly from the kids who are reading the books.

I went on to ask them what it was about a cover that drew their attention. The most common answers were - bright colors, an interesting photo, and an attractive person. When I asked about a blurb preferences, they told me that they were looking for something intriguing, something that made them wonder, and something that they could relate to.

So... there you have it. Straight from the mouths of young readers. Nothing earth-shattering, but confirmation of what we already knew. I think it's a good reminder for us all. I look forward to sharing my cover and blurb for "Once Again" with you very soon!

Happy reading and writing!

Six Sentence Sunday: Once Again

2012-01-08T05:00:00.000-05:00

It's been several weeks since I participated in Six Sentence Sunday. The holidays were super busy and super fun, but it feels good to be back with all of you today! I recently announced my decision to pursue Indie Publishing, so I'm excited to return to a manuscript I shared from several months ago. Originally the book was titled "You Again", but has since been retitled "Once Again". This is my soon-to-be-released debut Young Adult novel.

The following snippet comes from early in the book, when our heroine, Layla, experiences her first vision of her past life. Of course, at the time, she's unaware of what is happening to her and how it will affect her life in the coming months. From inside her parents' car, she witnesses a near collision on the beach and is shaken by the disappearance of the woman she has seen running frantically.

I squinted as she kept running toward a rock wall, the forward momentum of our car taking me farther away. Her form grew smaller and... transparent?

No, of course not.

And then she disappeared, like dust blowing away in the breeze.

My skin warmed as the cold air in the car abated. I rubbed my eyes, shook my head, and turned back to face the front of the car, thinking it had been a very long day.

Be sure to visit the official Six Sunday site and find lots of other talented authors, or follow on Twitter with #SixSunday!

Happy reading and writing!

Quotable: Abraham Lincoln

2012-01-04T09:00:00.000-05:00

It's always interesting to uncover what really successful people had to say about dreams, goals, success, etc. I'd say in the realm of accomplishments, Abraham Lincoln rates up there near the top. That's why this quote from him rings so true... so profound.

"Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other."
~ Abraham Lincoln

I couldn't agree more. Our own decisions... our own determinations mean far more in the grand scheme of our success than anything else. And it's good to remind ourselves of that every so often.

So... consider yourself reminded. And I'll consider myself reminded, too.

Happy reading and writing everyone!

Making Time

2012-01-02T10:16:00.000-05:00

My decision to pursue Indie Publishing offers some challenges. Particularly time management. Not that this is new to me. I've been a busy woman for a long time. Full-time job, three kids... it keeps me on my toes. There've been times when I had to put my writing on the back-burner, but I've always come back to it. I've always made time for it... because I WANTED to write.

Now I want to write AND publish. So I'm taking a proactive step to my time management. In order to make time for writing, editing, formatting, promoting, and all the other stuff that goes along with publishing - especially Indie publishing - I'm going to have to be super-structured in everything... writing, working, laundrying (I know it's not a real word, but it should be!), cooking, shopping, etc. etc.

So today I started. I made a chart, detailing the days of the upcoming week and what I need to do at various times each day. I'm starting sort of simple, only detailing the week/work days. If I find I need to detail out my weekends, I'll add that in later. It's already helped me to have a visual outline of my week. See those blank spots? Those are places (in addition to the chunks of time I already have once the kids go to bed and on the weekends) where I can slide in things for my writing activities. Charting out my week has given me a "heads up" that those moments exist in my week, so I can be prepared with what I need (laptop, flashdrive, highlighters, etc.) to make good use of them.

I've always been a pretty organized girl - in my head. You wouldn't know it by looking at my desk or in my closet! But I've decided that I need to me more than just organized mentally. The visual outline of days will give me a road map of how best to use my time to accomplish everything I need to for my writing, my job, and my family.

Happy reading and writing everyone!

A New Year... A New Me

2011-12-30T23:17:00.000-05:00

I never make New Year’sResolutions. I’m sure there was atime – like, maybe elementary school – when I did make them, but as an adultI’ve discovered that resolutions made at the start of a new year are an exercisein futility.

However, I think the NewYear is the perfect time for decisions… and I’ve made a big one.

After a lot of thought andconsideration, I have decided to become an Indie Author. If you’re unfamiliar with that term, itmeans I am going to publish my books independently, without a traditionalpublisher, first through eBook retailers and later on in print-on-demandformat.

It’s exciting, energizing, andscary as heck. But it’s the rightthing for me.

Here’s why.

I've spentthe last year feeling "stuck". Book 1 has been finished for a year and a half. Book 2 is ¾ of the way complete. I have a decent start on Book 3, andBook 4 is brewing in my head. I’vequeried and queried and queried, with some really positive feedback, but noforward movement. I’m not knockingtraditional publishing in the least. Far from it. But you canonly exist in the vacuum of non-momentum for so long, before it startsaffecting your creativity. Atleast that’s true for me. Feelingstuck didn't exactly motivate me to keep writing and producing and learning....etc. etc. I realized I was in a deep funk when it came to my writing, soI started thinking seriously about what I REALLY wanted. While we all have the dream of someday writing full time, at the root of thatdream is the desire to just WRITE. And that’s what I was losing as Itried to swim the treacherous waters of query letters, rejections, more queryletters, more non-responses. Ibelieve that Indie Publishing will give me the motivation I need to keepwriting and producing regularly, without getting discouraged and down.

The goal isALWAYS to move forward, so I haven't given up the dream of publishing thetraditional route, but it's not the "only" dream I have anymore. I want to write, to keep improving, to reach readers, and never remainstagnant. So whatever happens from here on out... whether it's Indie forever oreventually a traditional publishing experience... my goal remains the same. But this is the first step!

So… there itis… my New Year’s decision! I hopeyou’ll check back regularly and watch for announcements about my debut novel,“Once Again”, which I hope to release sometime during the first part of2012. You can also “Like” myauthor page on Facebook as well as “follow” me on Twitter.

Join me onthis exciting journey!

Guest Blogging Today!

2011-12-17T08:57:00.000-05:00

Today I'm guest blogging at "Students of Jesus", the blog of my friend and fellow writer Ray Hollenbach. He's been hosting a series of guests and discussing The Parables of Jesus. Mine is the latest installment.

Come by and take a look!

Adolescence: It's Still Hard as Heck

2011-12-09T10:58:00.001-05:00

When you’re in middle school and high school, the approvalof your peers matters a LOT. As much asyou want it NOT to matter what other people think of you, it does. Because those are the people you “live with”,so to speak. You’re with them day in andday out at school and even beyond that if you’re involved in any sort ofextra-curricular activities.

So… yeah. What otherpeople think of you matters.

Most kids spend the better part of their time duringadolescence trying to “fit in”… trying to be “like everyone else”. Fitting in and being like everyone elseallows you to NOT attract attention to yourself. It allows you (theoretically) to avoid beingmade fun of. I remember those years ofmy own life very well. I remembergetting dressed in the morning, fixing my hair, putting on make-up, and thelast thing I did before leaving for school was stand in front of the mirror andlook at myself, thinking the whole time “Is there anything about the way I lookthat someone can make fun of?”

And even during those times when there really wasn’tanything about me that merited being made fun of, invariably someone foundsomething to ridicule.

It's why some kids bury themselves in books. It's why some kids immerse themselves in dark and angsty music. It's why some kids withdraw altogether.

Such is life when you’re an adolescent.

I was a band nerd… a music geek.

I was not athletically inclined, despite a few attempts atbasketball, softball, and golf. And letme tell you… that’s a tough lesson for a kid to have to face – that they aren’tparticularly athletic.

I was not terribly popular. Though not exactly UNpopular, Iwas certainly not in the “upper echelon”. I fell squarely in the middle class of students.

Of course, what I experienced in middle school and highschool was nothing any worse or any better than any other kid that age hasexperienced. It seems that the ridiculeand the teasing and the struggle to blend in is in a way a “rite of passage”for everyone.

I’ve spent a good portion of my career as a middle schoolteacher trying to figure out how to enact some kind of change in this area...trying to find a way to make it “okay” for kids to just be themselves,regardless of if whether or not makes them popular… trying to find a way to stop kids fromjudging each other based on superficial things.

I have not succeeded. Yet. Why is creativity and individuality not valued from one peer to another? Why are some kids ridiculed just for being themselves? I have no answers. But I hope that maybe insome small way I’ve encouraged a kid or two along the way that who and what theyare is enough.

And maybe there will be a day, not too far in the future,where 13 year-olds like my own kiddo don’t have to hide the fact that they aremusically gifted… or artistically talented… because it isn’t the “cool” thingto do.

Maybe one day he won't have to ask his dad and me NOT to play the video below while we're sitting in the stands of a school basketball game, because he's afraid his peers will see and make fun of him.

Maybe.

Six Sentence Sunday: Comfort

2011-12-04T09:10:00.001-05:00

Welcome back to Six Sentence Sunday! I took a week off last Sunday, as our Thanksgiving holiday was still going strong. I hope all of you enjoyed your holiday, as well! I'm glad to be back today and share in the fun! As always, I appreciate the encouraging comments very much, and look forward to hopping around to your blogs!

I'm still sharing from my current WIP, "Dusk", a YA Paranormal novel. In the following snippet Zoe has just had a nasty exchange with another student at school, and her father's infidelity, which had not been common knowledge, just became the latest piece of juicy gossip circulating through the senior class. She's humiliated and devastated, and hides in the bathroom, intending to skip class until the chaos dies down. The hallways have cleared and she's just about to breathe a sigh of relief at being alone, when who should wander in...?

Adrian strolled into the girls' bathroom like it was no big deal, and sat down beside me. I lifted my eyes to his, positive that I looked like a red raccoon. He said nothing... just reached for me and pulled me into his lap.

As his arms came around me I remembered the conversation I wanted to have with him, but now was not the time. I was devastated and he was here, not saying a word, not trying to fix things, not giving me unwanted advice. Just holding me, letting warmth seep into me as the last few tears slid down my cheeks.

Be sure to visit the official Six Sentence Sunday site and check out lots of talented authors! You can also follow on Twitter with #sixsunday.

Six Sentence Sunday: The First

2011-11-20T08:56:00.001-05:00

Once again, I'm posting from my work-in-progress, "Dusk", a YA paranormal story. When we left Zoe and Adrian last week, she'd just told him the awful truth about her father's infidelity and subsequent death. Unfortunately, that's not all the unsavory things Zoe has to tell. Immediately prior to the snippet in today's scene, Zoe's summer of drinking and hard-partying has been revealed to Adrian by someone else, in the middle of the school cafeteria no less. After school she gives him the details, including the DUI car crash that finally "woke her up" and caused her to change her ways. She thinks Adrian will be finished with her after learning the truth. She's wrong.

My chest expanded until I thought it might explode as Adrian shifted his head slightly and leaned closer. The split second before his lips touched mine seemed like a million years, and in those million years all kinds of thoughts raced through my brain.

I'd just told him the story of my most horrible, stupid mistake, and his reaction is to kiss me? Was it a pity kiss? Was it some kind of show of sympathy? Would I embarrass myself with lack of technique or excess slobber?

I hope you enjoyed this glimpse into Zoe and Adrian's first kiss! Be sure to check out the official Six Sentence Sunday site and find lots of other talented authors. Thanks in advance for your encouraging comments. I look forward to visiting your blogs as well. Happy Sunday everyone!

Six Sentence Sunday: All the Time

2011-11-13T08:41:00.001-05:00

Welcome back! It's Six Sentence Sunday time! Be sure to visit the official Six Sentence Sunday site to find lots of talented authors who share their work each weekend. You can also follow on Twitter with #sixsunday.

Once again, I'm posting from my current YA work-in-progress, "Dusk". In this snippet, we pick up shortly after where we left of last week. Zoe has unloaded all her family baggage on Adrian, who suggested a motorcycle ride afterward. Here they are winding down their time together, and Zoe is still a bit confused by Adrian's attention. He's a pretty hot guy, and has grabbed the attention of the most elite girls at school, and Zoe can't exactly figure out why he's paying so much attention to her. Fortunately, Adrian quiets her uneasiness in the following excerpt.

"I can't claim to understand how you feel," he said, squeezing my hands. "And I won't always have the answers. But I can listen. And I can care. All the time."

Staring up at him, I could not find the words to express the feelings bubbling inside.

Remembering the Sacrifice

2011-11-11T11:54:00.001-05:00

Veteran's Day, 2011. Naturally, I turn to the beauty of words to express the feelings of the heart. I think today especially of my paternal grandfather, who served in WWII and landed on Normandy Beach on the day after D-Day... my maternal grandfather who also served during WWII... and my father-in-law, who served in Vietnam and came home to a country where many mocked him for his service. But I also think of the many, many who I will never know, who served long ago or are serving today, making sacrifices for my freedoms.

Today, I thank them, from the bottom of my heart.

In Flanders Fields
by: John McCrae

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie,
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

Six Sentence Sunday: A Fine Idea

2011-11-06T06:00:00.000-05:00

It's Six Sentence Sunday! Thanks in advance for all your encouraging comments. I can't wait to visit your blogs and read your snippets today!

Again, I'm posting from my current work-in-progress, a Young Adult Paranormal called "Dusk".

Last week, Adrian was quite the sensitive guy, as he listened silently while Zoe spilled her guts. Once she's finished re-hashing all the family skeletons (which proves pretty darn cathartic for her), Adrian suggests they take a ride. On his bike. And yeah... Zoe thinks that's a fiiiiiiiine idea.

"Let's go for a ride." He inclined his head toward the bike.

My insides lit up like a Christmas tree. Me, on a bike with Adrian, forced to hold on to him? Yes, yes, and yes. It was almost enough to make me forget.

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Six Sentence Sunday: Silent Understanding

2011-10-30T07:19:00.000-04:00

Welcome to another edition of Six Sentence Sunday! Thanks in advance for the encouraging comments. I look forward to visiting many of your SSS posts as well!

And now... on to the Six Sunday fun! I'm still posting from my current YA work-in-progress, "Dusk". Zoe is still reeling from the drama and tragedy that rocked her family earlier in the year, ending with the death of her father. What follows is one of her really low moments, preceded by her mom's attempt at a heart-to-heart. Clearly feeling rotten, Zoe's out for a walk and some fresh air, and who should just happen to wander by? Adrian, of course. It's a short bit of dialogue, but I hope it gives a little glimpse into Adrian's character.

"Upset?"

"Fight with my mom," I said, then corrected. "Not really a fight. More of a discussion she wanted that I refused to have."

He nodded, as if he knew I didn't need advice, and in that moment, it was his silent understanding that caused me to open the floodgates.

"My dad had an affair."

Be sure to visit the official Six Sentence Sunday site and take a look at the many talented authors who participate each Sunday. You can also follow on Twitter with #SixSunday.

Six Sentence Sunday: Zoe's First Look

2011-10-15T22:10:00.000-04:00

Welcome back! It's Six Sentence Sunday! As always, I am encouraged by and thankful for you comments, and am happy to return the favor when I visit your Six Sunday blogs. Be sure to visit the official Six Sentence Sunday site here, and check out the many other talented writers who share their work on Sundays! You can also follow on Twitter with #SixSunday.

And now for today's post. Last week, I started posting from my current work-in-progress, "Dusk". Zoe Gray, the heroine, is battling back after the death of her father... and a whole lot of other drama that happened before he died. Adrian Shaw moves to town, and the two become fast friends. For the first time in months, Zoe sees a light at the end of the tunnel. But... Adrian is more than meets the eye, although what meets the eye is pretty nice! In the following passage, Zoe is getting her first look at Adrian from across the school parking lot. And yeah... she likes what she sees.

Even from a distance I could tell he was tall, at least a head taller than the boy getting into the truck next to him. His hair, dark and just long enough to turn up on the ends was just the right amount of messy. I couldn't see the color of the eyes, but the deep dimples in his cheeks flashed when he smiled at me.

He. Smiled. At me.

I included a couple of pictures that give an idea what I "see" when I picture these two. That's Drew Roy, who played Seth Hancock in Secretariat, and Teresa Palmer, who played Becky in The Sorcerer's Apprentice and Number Six in I Am Number Four.

Ralph Waldo Emerson on Reading

2011-10-13T10:36:00.000-04:00

"One must be an inventor to read well. There is then creative reading, as well as creative writing."

~Ralph Waldo Emerson

It's no secret I love reading. One of the many reasons I believe reading to be so valuable is that it requires imagination. Writing a book requires a tremendous amount of imagination, but I think sometimes we forget that there is imagination involved in reading a book, too.

What if all you "saw" when you read a book were the words on the page? What if all you heard was the turn of the pages or the "click" of a button on your eReader? What if all you felt was the book (or eReader!) in your hand? Now, I'm not knocking the feel of pages beneath your fingers or the pleasant way a book smells. No way! Those are great sensations. But...

When you read a book, you picture the characters in your mind. You "see" what they look like, you "observe" their actions. You "hear" their voices and their conversations. When a character mentions the aroma of fresh baked bread or the smell of the air after a warm summer rain, you "smell" those things as well.

It's because reading requires imagination. Words, books, stories... they come alive in your mind because of your imagination. Thanks to imagination, you not only read books... you EXPERIENCE them.

Reading calls on all of us to use our minds and our senses. It's possibly the most interactive form of entertainment on the planet.

Ralph Waldo Emerson had it right... there really IS creative reading, as well as creative writing.

How do you experience a book? I'd love to hear about it!

Happy reading and writing everyone!

Six Sentence Sunday: Dusk

2011-10-09T06:00:00.000-04:00

It's that time again! Six Sentence Sunday, where lots of really talented authors post 6 sentences from their own writing, and we blog hop around, enjoying everyone's teasers. You can view the entire list of Six Sentence Sunday authors here, as well as follow on Twitter with #sixsunday.

I've switched directions for this week's Six Sunday, and posted from my current work-in-progress, another YA novel. This one is titled "Dusk", and it follows Zoe Gray, as she tries to recover from her dad's death - and a whole bunch of other family drama that happened before he died. Adrian Shaw moves to town, and immediately befriends Zoe, slowly but surely helping her come to terms with what she's suffered. But there's more to Adrian than meets the eye!

The following excerpt is from the opening scene, in which Zoe has been drowning her grief in a substance she's not legally supposed to drink. She, and the two "friends" she's partied with, are involved in a car wreck, and somehow Zoe is rescued.

The sirens grew louder and louder until I was sure the police car had to be right beside us. Out of nowhere arms came around me... strong arms... warm arms. Curling against him, I gave myself over to the safety and security that enveloped me, close and tender, like an old blanket.

And then it was as if I was floating, flying even. Was I dreaming... had I left my body? I didn't know and I didn't care.

Steve Jobs: Creative Genius

2011-10-06T07:00:00.004-04:00

Apple makes great products. I own several. An iMac. A Macbook. My kids have iPods. And Tuesday I ordered a brand new iPod Touch.

But it's not the superior tech products that make the world mourn Steve Jobs. It was his creative spirit... his drive to create something new... something better.

I've said on this blog before that creativity is important, essential even, to our well-being. I'd like to think Steve Jobs would agree.

On the iPod Touch I ordered Tuesday, Oct. 4, I had the following engraved on the back:

"My business is to create"

- William Blake

One of my recent posts featured this quote, and as I pondered what to have engraved on the back of my new iPod, this immediately came to mind. I think it's fitting, not only because creativity is such an enormous part of my life, but because Steve Jobs exhibited the kind of creativity we should all aspire to.

Creative types are sometimes thought of as odd... strange... abnormal. It's a tough way to walk when you're growing up, but as an adult, those labels become badges of honor. I think Steve Jobs thought so too.

"Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the troublemakers,

the round pegs in the square holes...

the ones who see things differently - they're not fond of rules...

You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them,

but the only thing you can't do is ignore them

because they change things...

they push the human race forward,

and while some may see them as the crazy ones,

we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough

to think that they can change the world,

are the ones who do."

~ Steve Jobs ~

1955 - 2011

Six Sentence Sunday: Changing History

2011-10-02T08:16:00.003-04:00

Welcome back to another edition of Six Sentence Sunday, where lots of great authors share six sentences of their work for the people of the blogosphere to enjoy! Thanks to everyone who has visited my past Six Sunday posts and kindly left comments. I enjoy reading your posts as well!

Today's six sentences are from the final scene of my completed YA manuscript, "You Again". At this point, the evil forces from the past have been defeated... once and for all. Lucas and Layla return to the beach where there lives were once destroyed, with the goal of making new memories.

“Does it feel weird being back here?” Luke asked, reaching for my hand and lacing our gloved fingers together as we walked toward the rocks.

I shook my head. “It feels nice, like we’ve changed the history of this place. Maybe we haven’t erased the bad stuff, but we’ve covered it up with good things.”

He smiled. “Yeah. I agree.”

A listing of Six Sentence Sunday blogs can be found each week here. The list of participants goes live each Sunday at 9:00 a.m. Eastern Time. You can also follow posts on Twitter at #sixsunday.

Six Sentence Sunday: Not Giving In

2011-09-25T05:27:00.002-04:00

It's that time again! Big thanks to those of you who've been so kind to stop by my previous Six Sentence Sunday posts and leave comments. It's my pleasure to return the favor and visit your blogs as well!

This week's post is excerpted from the last part of my complete YA novel "You Again". At this point in the story, Layla is taken captive by the reincarnated version of the evil-doer who destroyed the life she and Lucas had built together in their past life. He's not giving up, and she's not giving in, and the reader is left to wonder if all is lost.

Pain sliced through my skull as he grabbed me by the hair, wrenching my head against his chest until his arm came around me in a headlock. I struggled, flailing wildly against him while he pulled me further into the surf. The freezing water now up to my chest, my clothes pulled against me like quicksand.

Something caught my eye. A blur, as if something was moving far up the beach toward the parking area. If someone was there, all I needed was a distraction, a split second to get out of his hold and run screaming toward the movement.

A listing of Six Sentence Sunday blogs can be found each week here. The list of participants goes live each Sunday at 9:00 a.m. Eastern Time. You can also follow posts on Twitter at #sixsunday.

My Favorites!

2011-09-22T20:02:00.000-04:00

Just for fun... a few of my favorites!

Cuisine: Italian and Sushi

Movie: When Harry Met Sally, Notting Hill, The Sound of Music

TV Show: Criminal Minds

Color: Blue

Song: "Love Song" by The Cure (favorite song evah!)

Broadway Role: Narrator in "Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat"

Ice Cream Flavor: Pralines & Cream

Pizza Topping: Mushrooms

Herb: Fresh Thyme

Footwear: Flip-flops

Season: Summer

Candy Bar: Skor and Peanut Butter Twix

Composer: Beethoven

Fruit: Strawberries

Indulgence: Pedicures

Six Sentence Sunday: Sometimes I Look at You

2011-09-18T05:00:00.002-04:00

It's Sunday again... time for another Six Sentence Sunday post! Thanks to all of you who've visited my past SSS posts. I'm always encouraged by your kind words. And I always enjoy visiting your blogs and reading snippets of your work, as well.

Today's Six picks up where last week's left off. The chunk of dialogue surrounding Luke's "in that way" speech is some of my favorite. I couldn't fit it all in last week's Six, so I decided to do a "continuation" this week. The set up is the same as last week. Luke and Layla are in the thick of the battle with the evil forces that destroyed them in their past lives, and it's put a real damper on their budding teenage romance. Luke's a tad bit ticked that they've not been able to have normal relationship. His frustration comes out in a run-on sentence and a heart-melting confession!

My heart went wild in my chest, and I wondered if he could hear it. The look on his face melted everything inside me, turning my brain to a mud puddle.

But he wasn't finished.

"Sometimes I look at you and I forget all about strange dreams and visions and past lives, and all I can think about is how pretty you look and how lucky I am and how proud I am that you want to be with me. Sometimes all I want is to just be a normal eighteen year-old guy who's crazy about his girlfriend."

Ohmigosh, wow.

A listing of Six Sentence Sunday blogs can be found each week here. The list of participants goes live each Sunday at 9:00 a.m. Eastern Time. You can also follow posts on Twitter at #sixsunday.

Six Sentence Sunday: In That Way

2011-09-11T05:00:00.009-04:00

Welcome back to another Six Sentence Sunday post. Thanks to all of you who've visited my previous posts. Your comments are always appreciated and encouraging!

Today we pick up with Layla and Lucas, the heroine and hero of my completed Young Adult novel "You Again". In this snippet, they are in the thick of the battle with the evil forces that destroyed them in their past life, and Lucas is more than a little dismayed that the reincarnation drama keeps them from being able to be normal teenagers. Here, he proposes they take a moment to just "be".

He shoved his hands through his hair and walked back toward the window. He took a deep breath, shoulders slumping and turned to look at me. “We’re in the middle of this insane situation, and I feel like I have to hold myself back and not feel what I’m feeling so that we don’t cloud over things or piss off the bad guys... so we can keep our focus.”

Where was he going with all this?

“And I want you to know that I do think of you that way.” He walked closer, angled his head. “I mean, in that way.”

On this day... the 10th Anniversary of the 9/11 attacks... as we enjoy one another's Six Sunday posts, let us not forget the tragedy that occurred that day, the people who lost their lives, and those who defend us still, so that people like us can enjoy the wonderful lives that we do. Never forget.

A listing of Six Sentence Sunday blogs can be found each week here. The list of participants goes live each Sunday at 9:00 a.m. Eastern Time. You can also follow posts on Twitter at #sixsunday.

Nothing to Read & A Lot Like Me

2011-09-07T09:42:00.001-04:00

Last night, the eldest kiddo (almost 13 years old) and I had a conversation that went like this:

Me: You need to find a book to read for your English class.
Him: I don't have anything to read!
Me: Excuse me? In this house, you really think you can make an argument for having nothing to read?
Him: Grumble, grumble.
Me: There are two books on the Kindle app on your iPod. There are two unread books in your bedroom that you got for Easter.
Him: Grumble, grumble.

Having an almost-teen is an experience... not sure exactly what kind of experience yet, but an experience nonetheless. He skulked off to his bedroom, and I just shook my head. Nothing to read? In my house? Yeah, right. He had to know he wasn't getting away with that one!

He comes out a few minutes later with a book I've never seen before in my life - "The Land" by Mildred Taylor. Now granted, there are lots of books in my house, but I do have a sort of "catalog" of them in my head. And this one was not one I'd laid eyes on before.

Me: Where'd that book come from?
Him: I got it in 5th grade when they were giving away free books from the library.
Me: Hmmmm.

So... I go to his school website and look up the book to see how many Accelerated Reader points it's worth. 18 points! And it was a freebie he picked up from the school library over 2 years ago.

My point? Well, other than the point that dealing with an almost-teen can be hilarious, frustrating, infuriating, and joyous all at the same time? The point is that I think I've created a reader sort of like me. The fact that he could go rummage around in his bedroom for a few minutes and come out with a book that he's had for 2 years and never read... well, that sounds an awful lot like me.

And despite the fact that we had a semi-argument about him finding a book to read, it made me smile.

After all, one can never have too many books.

Happy reading and writing everyone!

Twitter Never Ceases to Amaze: "Words Have Power"

2011-09-06T18:56:00.000-04:00

I am still a Twitter novice. Parts of it are still a mystery to me, though I learn a little bit more each day. Recently though, I discovered something pretty cool... and helpful too.

One of the things that seemed difficult about Twitter was the overwhelming deluge of information. If you follow more than a handful of people, there's no way to keep up with everybody. And trying to pick out links, blog posts, and other information that coincided with your interests? Well, let's say I just had to give up.

Then one of my blog posts was picked up by a Twitter newspaper. I had no idea such a thing existed (yes, I know... I'm green when it comes to Twitter). I always post to Twitter when I have a new post on my blog. This particular time, I happened to use a #hashtag to highlight the topic of my blog. The next day, when I checked my "mentions", I was mentioned in a post promoting someone's Twitter newspaper, which happened to be focused on the topic of my most recent blog post.

After a bit of investigation, I decided to try my own Twitter newspaper. I discovered that I could choose topics of interest to me, such as Young Adult fiction, creativity, writing, and books in general. The "newspaper" is not only a way to maybe draw a few more followers to my Twitter account and/or my blog, but also a way to gather articles, blogs, and other information of interest to me, that otherwise might get lost in the endless Twitter feed of every day.

So, if you're interested in some of the topics mentioned above, check out my Twitter Newspaper, "Words Have Power". If you don't tweet, or you don't want to navigate the Twitter feed to find it, you can read it right here from my blog. Just click the above tab "Words Have Power", which takes you to the paper widget. Click anywhere in the graphic and it will take you to the paper.

Twitter... the possibilities never cease to amaze!

Six Sentence Sunday: Layla's Fears Confirmed

2011-09-04T05:00:00.007-04:00

Welcome back to another edition of "Six Sentence Sunday". Big thanks to those who visited my first two "Six" posts. Your comments are encouraging and helpful. I've enjoyed visiting many of your blogs as well, and reading the snippets of your work!

This Sunday's "Six" continues with Layla and Luke's story, from my completed YA manuscript "You Again". At this point in the story, the two of them have experienced numerous dreams and visions about their past lives together, but so far they've not been "shown" what tragedy actually happened on the beach. Layla has her suspicions, and in the following excerpt, her dream proves her right.

The branches they beat him with were huge, as big around as tree trunks it seemed. Over and over again they hit him, and with each blow I felt a corresponding jolt in my own body, a ripping and tearing through my heart. His face was bloody. His clothes torn. His body battered by their assault.

And when they were done, when he lay there lifeless and broken, they tossed his body into the tide, where it would soon wash away.

Obviously, she wakes up from the dream more than a little shaken, after seeing Lucas - or the previous version of him - murdered on the beach. Will the two of them be able to unravel the mystery of their past in time to keep the same tragedy from happening in their present?

A listing of Six Sentence Sunday blogs can be found each week here. The list of participants goes live each Sunday at 9:00 a.m. Eastern Time. You can also follow posts on Twitter at #sixsunday.

Creativity: It Matters

2011-08-31T12:19:00.009-04:00

One of my favorite movies of ALL TIME is P.S. I Love You. Despite the fact that the "hero" is dead before the movie starts, the romance of the story is sweeping and poignant. Doesn't hurt that Gerard Butler plays Gerry Kennedy, the hero. Eye-candy is always a positive! (And Jeffrey Dean Morgan adds more to the hotness quotient mid-way through the movie! Oh, and there's Harry Connick, Jr. too! But I digress....)

But aside from all the romance and gorgeous men, there's another reason I love this movie. Gerry's message to Holly, his widow, in the letters that come to her following his death have a message of hope and creativity that slowly but surely bring her back to life. See, Gerry knows Holly. He knows what she wants, deep down in her soul. He knows what would make her happy, and he wants to see her strive to make it a reality.

In the second half of the movie, Holly and her girlfriends go on a trip to Ireland (Gerry's native country), prearranged by Gerry before his death. While there, she visits his parents, and in the course of their conversation, Gerry's mother produces a letter for Holly, from Gerry. At this point neither Holly nor the viewer is surprised, as Gerry's letters have cropped up in numerous places and situations prior. But this one is the crux of Gerry's message to Holly, and in the process of Holly reading the letter, the viewer is treated to a flashback of how Holly and Gerry met. She, an American tourist in Ireland, was lost as she walked through Wicklow National Forest. He, a native Irishman, helps her find her way back to her B&B. It's a beautiful scene... and contains the following William Blake quote that has since become one of my very favorites. Words to live by, in my creative heart.

I must create a system or be enslaved by another man's;

I will not reason or compare:

my business is to create.

As they walked along the little Irish road together, Holly fumbled her way through the quote, trying to impress Gerry with her vast knowledge! But the point she made was clear. She wanted to create. She didn't know what... she just knew she wanted to create and put something of herself out there in the world. For the first time, we see Holly as a the free-spirit that she really is... the wildly imaginative soul that exists within her. As often happens, life got in the way, and Holly became consumed with paychecks and bill-paying and plan-making... all important things, for sure... but she lost sight of that spark inside her. And from beyond the grave, Gerry wants to bring it back.

I wish I could've found a video clip to share, here within this post, but I had no luck. I did, however, come across a transcript of the movie, and found the exact words I wanted to share. After the flashback scene, in which we see Gerry and Holly meet for the first time - and Holly quoting William Blake - the scene comes back to the "present", as Holly sits in Gerry's parents' backyard, reading the letter Gerry had left for her. In the last part of the letter, he reminisces about the day they met, and how his life changed that day. He says:

Life had changed as I knew it. And now it’s changed again, luv. See, I don’t worry about you remembering me… it’s that girl on the road you keep forgetting. ‘My business is to create. It doesn’t even matter what you do.’ You told me that, remember? So go home. Go find it. Find that thing that makes you like nobody else.”

He knew. He knew that it was the creative side of her that would bring her back to life, and allow her to move on following his death. I think a lot of us (me included) sometime discount just how powerful that part us is... and how important it can be to our physical and mental health.

Holly returns to NYC and chases... and achieves... her dream of being a shoe designer. As she says in a letter she writes to Gerry at the close of the movie, “This is my one and only life. And it’s a great and terrible and short and endless thing... and none of us come out of it alive.” In other words, she's going for it!

There's a lot of Holly in me. I'm that girl who's had that drive to create all my life. The one who's happiest and most at home when I'm writing, singing, reading, cooking... and various other creative outlets. And I'm also that girl who sometimes forgets. The one who gets caught up in the "stuff" of life, and doesn't remember to make time to create. But I'm also the girl who knows how important it is to nurture that part of myself so I don't lose it forever.

So today is a reminder to the Holly in all of us, that the creative part of ourselves is SO important... important enough to merit our time, our energy, and our honor. Don't be the Holly at the beginning of the movie... be the Holly at the end of the movie. The one who knows exactly who she is and what she's meant to do. CREATE!

Six Sentence Sunday: Realization

2011-08-28T03:48:00.003-04:00

This week's "Six Sentence Sunday" again comes from my completed YA manuscript "You Again". In last week's post, we saw the main characters, Lucas and Layla, meet for the first time in this life. This week, we see them at the coast, after a particularly realistic and unsettling dream of their past life together. Neither realizes that the other is experiencing the dreams, but all that changes when they both show up at the beach early one Saturday morning!

My breathing was rapid by the time I reached the outcropping, my legs burning from the force of my sprint down the beach. The sky was overcast and the cool morning air burned as I pulled it into my lungs.

Salty, damp ocean air stirred around my face as I bent over, bracing my hands on my knees, trying to calm my heart rate, all the while glancing back and forth, proving to myself that all was fine and no one had been hurt here as I slept.

I heard the hammering of feet just before I heard his voice.

"Layla!"

Luke sped around the rocks, skidding to a halt when he saw me.

Happy reading and writing!

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Six Sentence Sunday: My Inaugural Post

2011-08-21T14:10:00.007-04:00

For several weeks I've been reading other writer's "Six Sentence Sunday" posts and finding them interesting and intriguing. So today, I decided to join the ranks!

My inaugural "Six Sentence Sunday" post comes from my completed YA novel "You Again", in which Lucas and Layla discover that being reincarnated can really screw up your high school social life! These six sentences come from the scene when the two of them meet for the first time... well, the first time in this life anyway.

"I'm Lucas," came the voice from the seat next to me.

And it was a really great voice, too. Deep and mature, there was no hint of the cracking and squeaking of many guys my age. Nope, this was the voice of a boy solidly on the other side of puberty. Smooth and dark, like melted caramel.

"Hi," I said, angry with myself for sounding sheepish, even to my own ears.

Below are a couple of pictures that give you an idea how I picture these two in my mind. Yes, that's Jackson Rathbone, of Twilight fame. The girl is Emma Roberts, who you might remember as Nancy Drew.

Check back next week for another peek into Lucas and Layla's adventure.

Happy reading and writing!

Handling "Stuff"

2011-08-19T06:06:00.004-04:00

Today I want to talk about "handling stuff".

We ALL find ourselves in positions of leadership sometimes. Whether we're the boss at work, the parent at home, or just the person in a group of others who naturally falls into the "leadership" role, it happens to all of us at one time or another.

The way we "handle stuff" as a leader is really important. Lately, I've caught myself observing how people handle things, wondering about the pros and cons of the different approaches, and, as always, finding it fodder for the writing of stories down the road.

Let's say you're in a group of college students who've been assigned a group project. Somehow, you wind up being the one planning, delegating, and seeing to the completion of the project. Maybe you get frustrated with the others in your group for not pulling their weight. How do you handle that? If you express your anger and frustration by snapping their heads off, do you really do yourself and your group project any good? Probably not. More than likely, the others now feel alienated. Did they need to step it up and do their part? Probably so. Is anger and humiliation the way to get that from them? I doubt it.

Lets say you're the boss have an uncomfortable situation that needs your attention. Maybe it involves confronting someone about something they've done wrong. You worry how the person will handle the confrontation, even if you handle your part delicately. So, instead of facing the issue yourself, you write a memo and have someone else deliver it. Yeah, you've avoided the direct confrontation, but what kind of leader have you shown yourself to be? Have you inspired those you lead to respect your position of leadership by avoiding the responsibility? Probably not.

I'm a teacher. If I snap at a student out of anger, I run the risk of pushing that student away so far that he or she may never be able to truly learn from me again. And any good thing I might have to offer that child is possibly lost forever. Likewise, if I just avoid confrontation at all costs, I let the students make the rules in my classroom and lose the authority I need to effectively teach.

I won't say I'm perfect. Far from it. My angry (less-mature) side comes out every now and then, usually at home. It's unfortunate that my family winds up being the recipient of that, but I suppose since they can forgive and forget pretty quickly, there's a reason I only let that side out at home. And I don't like confrontation. In fact, I hate it. I don't like having to "be the meanie", or call someone out on their mistakes, but sometimes it's my job to take care of what needs to be dealt with. I don't do myself any favors by overlooking things in order to avoid the confrontation.

It's a fine line we walk, when we find ourselves in positions of leadership. It's not always easy to tell when we're crossing the line into the "too harsh" territory, or when we're not really answering the call to be a leader. Either one can be damaging to our effectiveness.

I suppose my thinking is this: Whatever you must do, do it with kindness and honesty. For example, it's possible to correct a misbehaving child while at the same time showing compassion. It's also possible to point out a flaw in something an employee does while at the same time being nice.

I think the old saying is true... you really CAN catch more flies with honey than with vinegar!

Just a few thoughts for your Friday.

Happy weekend, everyone. Read something great!

Friday 56: SLAUGHTERHOUSE FIVE by Kurt Vonnegut

2011-08-12T12:27:00.009-04:00

It's been a while since my last Friday 56. Real life and all that goes with it sometimes keeps me away. Glad to be back today... and with something totally different than any 56 I've done before.

I read a lot of Young Adult fiction, and a lot of romance fiction. A week or so ago, I challenged myself to step out of my normal reading habits. The result? "Slaughterhouse Five", by Kurt Vonnegut.

The story centers around Billy Pilgrim, an American soldier who experiences the horrific bombing of Dresden... as well, as a journey "through" various times in his life.

Here's the gist:

- Grab the book nearest you.

- Turn to page 56

- Choose a line or two to share.

- No Spoilers!

I'm only about a quarter of the way through the book, so I had to flip ahead to get to page 56. Here goes!

"The Germans carried the corpse out.

The corpse was Wild Bob. So it goes."

Hopefully after work I can grab a few minutes of reading time, so I can read up to this point and see what Wild Bob's corpse is all about!

If you enjoy the Friday 56, leave a comment! If you do your own 56, comment and include your link, and I'll be sure to visit yours!

The Friday 56 is hosted by Freda's Voice.

Enjoy the weekend, folks!

Digital Reading for Teens

2011-08-09T15:42:00.004-04:00

Recently, I won a Kobo eReader from Carina Press, in a giveaway held in celebration of their 1 year anniversary. I've been a digital reader (and Kindle owner) for the past two years, but I had no trouble figuring out immediately what I would do with the Kobo.

It's going to my son.

He's an avid reader, which is good since he's expected to have a book on hand at school, at all times. However, he's a 13-year old boy, and finding books that he enjoys involves a lot of digging and looking. Living in a small town, Wal-Mart is basically the only place to purchase books. This means that buying books for him usually involves a trip out of town to somewhere we can hit a large bookstore, or ordering off the internet, which involves shipping charges. Neither of these options are ideal.

More and more kids are reading on eReaders. At my school (population approx. 375), I've seen at least 4 students using eReaders. At my son's school (similar population) he's seen 2 students, just in his grade reading via an eReading device. Now, with the Kobo we'll be able to keep his "bookshelves" supplied, without driving an hour to the nearest bookstore or paying shipping charges for internet orders.

However, even before I won the Kobo, I was already considering ways that he could read digitally. He owns an iPod touch, and there are apps for practically EVERY eReader than can be installed on the iPod touch. So even without the eReader, he could've been reading eBooks on his iPod. The same is true of most smart phones - iPhone, Android, Blackberry, etc. This brought to mind a blog from last August, where I pondered the idea of teens and eBooks. And now here I am, the parent of a digital reader!

Times are changing, and I'm enjoying the ride!

Happy reading and writing everyone!

Quotable Discussions: Gary Paulsen

2011-07-23T07:39:00.006-04:00

Today's "Quotable Discussion" quote comes from Gary Paulsen, author of a number of books my oldest son has loved. His series about Brian, a young boy lost in the Canadian wilderness are some of my son's favorites. Today, we take a look at his quote about reading. For those of us who love books, I think he sums it up perfectly. Read on and see if you agree.

"Why do I read?

I just can't help myself.

I read to learn and to grow, to laugh and to be motivated.

I read to understand things I've never been exposed to.

I read when I'm crabby, when I've just

said monumentally dumb things to the people I love.

I read for strength to help me when I

feel broken, discouraged, and afraid.

I read when I'm angry at the whole world.

I read when everything is going right.

I read to find hope.

I read because I'm made up not just of

skin and bones, of sights, feelings,

and a deep need for chocolate, but I'm

also made up of words.

Words describe my thoughts and what's

hidden in my heart.

Words are alive--when I've found a

story that I love, I read it again and

again, like playing a favorite song over and over.

Reading isn't passive--I enter the

story with the characters, breathe

their air, feel their frustrations,

scream at them to stop when they're

about to do something stupid, cry with them, laugh with them.

Reading for me, is spending time with a friend.

A book is a friend.

You can never have too many."

~ Gary Paulsen

Well said, Mr. Paulsen. Well said. I agree wholeheartedly.

New Orleans Day 5 & 6: The Last Hurrah

2011-07-14T09:30:00.015-04:00

Our last full day in New Orleans (Day 5) focused a lot on the kids. They'd enjoyed the sight-seeing and sampling the tastes of the city, but it was time to give them something "just for them". I gave them a couple of choices, and unanimously they chose the Audubon Aquarium and IMax Theater.

We started off at the IMax, where we saw "Under the Sea" in 3D. Narrated by Jim Carrey, the film took us to the depths of the Pacific where we explored the Great Barrier Reef among other things. We all really enjoyed it... well, no one really liked the section about sea snakes, where the 3D glasses made it look like the snakes were slithering right into our laps... but the rest of the film rocked!

Next we walked through the Aquarium. We saw albino alligators, various kinds of sharks, sea turtles, sea horses, sea dragons, and many many other aquatic creatures. But the highlight of visit was Parakeet Pointe, where the kids got to feed the parakeets.

It didn't take a lot of effort to coax the parakeets onto the feedsticks!

There were so many different colors of parakeets!

The birds weren't skittish so it was easy to get close-ups.

My youngest kiddo was just the right height to rest his feedstick on the top rung of the fence!

8 year-old liked the white parakeets with blue bellies. He worked and worked until he got one of them on his feedstick!

After the Aquarium, we spent a little time walking through The French Quarter. No one was really hungry for supper, so instead we had a little snack of... you guessed it... beignets and cafe au lait at The Cafe Du Monde. However, I did snap the picture below of Ralph and Kacoo's. Though we didn't eat there this visit to The Big Easy, 17 years ago, after our engagement at The Cafe Du Monde, we celebrated with dinner at Ralph and Kacoo's. So naturally, I had to get a photo... for sentimental value!

Day 6 in New Orleans was a short day, as we packed up and checked out of the hotel that morning, then left for the long drive home at around 2:00 p.m. However, we did have time for a couple of "last minute" stops. First up was lunch at Deanie's Seafood. We ate a variety of things at Deanies, including Crawfish Au Gratin, Crawfish Étouffée, Fried Crawfish, BBQ Shrimp Pasta, and - not surprisingly - the oldest kiddo couldn't resist one last bowl of Gumbo!

At Deanie's the servers brought out boiled potatoes... in the same way Mexican restaurants bring out chips and salsa. They are new potatoes, boiled with Zatarain's Shrimp Boil seasoning. Served hot, with butter, they were delicious!

Pralines (pronounced PRAW-leans in New Orleans) are a traditional candy in The Crescent City. They are a sweet concoction of buttery, sugary, crunchy pecan yumminess!

We avoided buying them until the last day, that way they'd be super-fresh. We also worried they might not survive to go home with us if we purchased them too early! We sampled the pralines in several stores, and returned to Laura's Candies the last day to buy a box to take home. They are SO good!

As we drove out of the city, I snapped this picture of Lake Pontchatrain. The amount of water that you drive over is so vast there was no way to get the full effect in a picture, but the kids (and the hubs and I too) were really amazed at the sight, so I had to try to get a good shot! The I-10 bridge (the one we drove) over the lake is actually the shorter of the two Lake Ponchatrain bridges. Known as the "Twin Span" Bridge, this was the one so heavily damaged after Hurricane Katrina that it had to be rebuilt. It's approximately 5 1/2 miles of bridge, so what you see is water ALL around.

The Lake Pontchatrain Causeway, a toll bridge, holds the Guinness Book world record for the world's longest bridge over continuous water. It's almost 24 miles of bridge over the waters of Lake Pontchatrain. Perhaps on our next visit to New Orleans we'll drive THAT way!

Remember this picture from "New Orleans Day 1"? I thought it was an appropriate end to my travel journal. As we left the city, I looked back at the skyline one last time. Even though I was so looking forward to being home, there was a melancholy mood that filled me as we left. New Orleans holds such a special place in my heart, and I look forward to the day I can visit there again.

So long Crescent City... until we meet again...

New Orleans: The Last Day and a Half

2011-07-11T21:43:00.002-04:00

If you've been following along on my adventure in The Crescent City, I'll be posting pics and info from Day 5 and 6 once I get home. Tomorrow morning we check out of the hotel, and I won't have internet access for a day or so as we travel.

So, check back on Wednesday or Thursday, and I'll have some pictures of the Audubon Aquarium and a few other things we did during our last day and a half in New Orleans!

Later!

New Orleans Day 4: A Hodgepodge

2011-07-11T08:07:00.010-04:00

We set out on Day 4 with no set agenda... just money to by trolley passes and the desire to sight-see. And that's just what we did.

Waiting for the trolley, at the corner of Canal St. and Bourbon St. I snapped this picture. Bourbon St. is the most famous street in The Big Easy, but two blocks of it was about all we could take! You're likely to see anything down that street, and according to the local news, there have been 3 different shootings down Bourbon since we've been in the city! But honestly, throughout the rest of the French Quarter, you wouldn't realize such craziness goes on a few blocks away.

We wound up down Decatur St. again and wandered through Jackson Square. In the center of the park stands this statue of General (and later President) Andrew Jackson, who defeated the British at the Battle of New Orleans in 1814. (Sing it with me now... "In 1814 we took a little trip!")

And naturally, since we were on Decatur St., we couldn't resist stopping at the Cafe Du Monde for more Cafe au Lait and Beignets!

This is seriously my favorite stuff in New Orleans!

The kids all love the beignets, as well!

Meandering back down Decatur St., we spent some time in the Cigar Factory.

There are several cigar shops in New Orleans, but they hand-roll cigars here (the only place in the city that does). We stood and watched for a long time. The kids were fascinated!

Next we stopped at the Jean Lafitte Visitor Center. Lafitte was a pirate who ran a smuggling operation through New Orleans after the American Government enacted the Embargo Act of 1807. After he and his fleet were "busted", he helped Andrew Jackson defeat the British in the Battle of New Orleans, and in exchange received a pardon.

Below is a picture of the two younger kiddos in the courtyard area of the visitor center.

Inside the visitor center I spent some time looking at a display board full of information, pictures, and newspaper clippings about the disaster of Hurricane Katrina. I knew the French Quarter had not been severely damaged in the flood, but I'd never really understood the facts about how and why certain areas of the city flooded so terribly. I snapped the picture below because - for me, anyway - it was such a clear and succinct explanation. (Hopefully you can read it!)

I wondered what it would "feel" like to be in the city post-Katrina. The last time I visited was in 1994 - and I was a college student - and while it was fun and exciting to get to see the sights, I didn't really have an appreciation of the history and culture. However, after experiencing one of life's great milestones on that trip (my now-husband proposing marriage), I developed a connection... a love... for the city, which turned into a real appreciation for its heritage. I've been so grateful for the opportunity to be here again, and to experience the city and all it has to offer with "adult eyes". The tragedy of Hurricane Katrina continues to break my heart, and many places in the city still have a long road ahead, but it's exciting to see that the vibrancy of New Orleans is still very much present, and that the Crescent City is rebounding the way it is.

And... after a long day of wandering and sight-seeing, we took the St. Charles Street car through part of the Central Business district just to get a look at another part of the city. The kids enjoyed the trolley rides, and as you can see below, it gave them a much-needed rest from walking!

We ended the night with sushi. Yes, I realize that is not Cajun cuisine, but it was a nice end to a long day, and everyone enjoyed it thoroughly!

On Day 5, the kids and I plan to enjoy the Audubon Aquarium and IMax Theater. They deserve something a little more "up their alley" after all the walking and sight-seeing on Day 4. We'll also hopefully finish up some of our souvenir shopping before heading home on Tuesday.

New Orleans Day 3: The Mighty Mississippi

2011-07-10T06:43:00.005-04:00

I've seen the Mississippi River numerous times, as I've traveled closer to home and in & around the midwest. It's a formidable river, for sure. Maybe it's been a long time since I've seen the Mississippi, or maybe I've just never seen it in quite this way, but Day 3 in New Orleans gave new meaning to the saying "The Mighty Mississippi".

The kids and I took the Canal Street Ferry (which is free for pedestrians) across the river to Algiers Point, the second oldest neighborhood in New Orleans.

From Algiers, you can see The French Quarter, and yet you are completely removed from the noise, crowds, and chaos. The ten-minute ferry ride might as well take you back in time, to a slower, more relaxed way of life. The kids and I walked through the neighborhood, and while they may have been a little bored, I was soaking in the beauty of this little gem.

Below is the Algiers Courthouse, circa 1896. It's a large building, and I couldn't back up far enough to get it all in the picture. But I think you'll get the idea!

The houses in Algiers were lovely, and many of them reminded me of the houses in Charleston, SC, with their vibrant colors, decorative gingerbread, and inviting landscaping. Below are just a couple of examples. (I could've taken a picture of EVERY house we saw!)

Before catching the ferry to return to New Orleans, we enjoyed lunch at the Dry Dock Cafe.

Below is a photo of the New Orleans skyline (the Central Business District) as we boarded the ferry to leave Algiers. I wanted to give you an idea just how huge the Mississippi is at this point. My 5 year-old kept calling it "the lake"!

Day 3 in New Orleans ended at Felix's Restaurant. It's famous for oysters on the half shell, and of course, the hubs took advantage of that! Me, I enjoyed red beans and rice, New Orleans style!

The plan for Day 4 is to get a Trolley Pass and ride around the city! Check back and see how it goes!

New Orleans Day 2: It's Not Just a Feast for Your Tastebuds

2011-07-09T09:20:00.007-04:00

Day 2 in New Orleans consisted of two separate on-foot jaunts out into the French Quarter. This city is an absolute feast for the eyes, something I didn't fully appreciate when I was here 17 years ago. This time however, I appreciate every sight... even the abandoned and run-down buildings... because they all tell the story of this city.

Here are few of the sights (and smells and tastes) of our second day in The Crescent City.

The architecture of New Orleans is breath-taking. I could literally take a picture like this one on every street of the French Quarter.

We loved this vintage sign on Decatur Street. As you can see, it's painted on the side of a brick building that houses, among other things, the NOLA Tour Center. The building to the right, that you can't see in the picture, is the NOLA Fire Department.

The "House of Blues", also on Decatur Street was the dinner destination. The outside of the restaurant was really cool, and I couldn't resist a picture of my crazy kiddos on the steps!

The inside of the "House of Blues" was no less interesting. This was the decor above the bar.

We ate a variety of things at the "House of Blues", including Wild Mushroom Risotto (me), Oysters on the Half-shell (Hubs & Oldest kiddo), and, as can see above... GUMBO! Oldest kiddo ordered it, but we all had a taste. So far, it's one of his favorite Creole flavors.

(Mine too!)

Stay tuned for Day 3 in New Orleans, when the kids and I will take the Canal Street Ferry across the Mississippi to Algiers Point!

New Orleans Day 1: You Know You're Addicted to Your SmartPhone When...

2011-07-07T17:33:00.005-04:00

... you're using your iPhone in the bed of a truck at 75 mph.

No kidding, folks. On I-10 West, driving into New Orleans, as I prepared to take a picture of the New Orleans skyline (see below), this truck pulls up beside us. I decided it was photo-worthy!

And the highlight of the day... beignets and cafe' au lait at the Cafe Du Monde... where my hubs proposed to me 17 years ago!

Things I Love About Summer

2011-07-01T09:52:00.003-04:00

I love MANY things about summer. For a little "Friday Fun", here are three of the things I MOST love about summertime!

Grilling out!

Homemade Ice Cream!

Front Porch Sitting!

What are some of your summer loves?

"Breaking Free" by Teresa J. Reasor

2011-06-27T17:03:00.012-04:00

By nature, writing can be a lonely venture... and writers can be loners. However, it's important for all of us to have a support system, a person or persons we can share the journey with, a fellow writer whose opinion we value and who we trust to be honest with us about our work. Today's post features one of those fellow writers in my life.

Teresa Reasor and I are chapter-mates in Kentucky Romance Writers, but more than that, we're friends. We critique for one another... and encourage one another. I'm happy to have her here in my little corner of the cyber-world, and give her the opportunity to promote her new book "Breaking Free".

And by the way... I've read the book and it's awesome!

Following is a Q&A with Teresa Reasor, complete with some "teaser" info about the book, as well as information about her previously published titles. Enjoy!

AMY: Tell us a little bit about yourself…who you are and what your real life is like.

TERESA: I was born in the small Southeastern Kentucky town of Harlan. We used Harlan as home base every time my father got orders to ship out. He was a Marine for twenty-three years—I was a Marine Corps brat for fourteen of them. And by the time he retired, I’d attended nine schools in twelve years.

Though I never pictured myself as a teacher, I’ve been one over twenty years. I’ve taught Art and Art Appreciation in the public school system. And been an adjunct instructor for Eastern Kentucky University for seven years teaching education classes.

I’m an artist and have had some of my art work printed and sold. But my first love is the writing. I love putting words together to tell a story. Everything to me is about the story.

AMY: We’ve talked a lot recently here on my blog about the impact that books/reading can have on young people. Can you tell us a little bit about your history as a reader and how books were a part of your life growing up?

TERESA: I learned to read in Kindergarten on post at Paris Island, South Carolina. And I took to it like a mermaid to water. Traveling from post to post, we couldn’t transport many books, but there were always libraries available. I probably had the most extensive stack of library cards imaginable. But I did have collections that I wouldn’t part with. Box Car Children, Nancy Drew, The Hardy Boys, Trixie Beldon, and those led into the YA books available. I still have them all. By fourth grade I was reading books way above my grade level. And probably some things I shouldn’t have been. And with the reading came writing.

AMY: Now talk to us a little bit about your history as a writer. When did you start writing…what genres do you write …what books have you published?

TERESA: I started writing in fourth grade. I wrote a short story about a girl diagnosed with Leukemia. A friend we were stationed with was diagnosed at that time.

In middle school I wrote a soap opera. Think Dark Shadows meets Sheena of the Jungle. It was a fantasy.

In high school I took a creative writing class and I still have my notebook filled with poetry, short stories, and journal writings.

It wasn’t until college that I began to really hone my writing skills as an adult. I wrote the first five chapters of a novel at that time, a murder mystery for an advance composition class. It was during the critique sessions in class I experienced, for the first time, hooking an audience with my words.

Under my bed I have four manuscripts written between graduating college and finished my Masters degree. During that time the writing world was going through a wonderful transition where POV was more solidified, narrative was streamlined and story lines were beginning to become deeply braided. None of those old manuscripts fit any of those criteria and thus they will never see the light of day. Unless they’re rewritten from scratch.

In 2007 I had finished two manuscripts I thought had a shot. And they were published that year by The Wild Rose Press.

"Highland Moonlight" is a Scottish Medieval set in 1328. (Available in print and e-book.)

"Captive Hearts" is set just before the Regency period in 1796 London England. (Available in print and e-book.)

And then recently "Breaking Free" my first contemporary. (Available in e-book. Print coming soon.)

AMY: Tell us a little bit about your most recent book, “Breaking Free”. What was your inspiration for it…what is it about the characters that speaks to you… are their plans for a sequel…etc.?

TERESA: Breaking Free is a contemporary Romantic Suspense. It is heavy on the romance. It’s about Lieutenant Adam “Hawk” Yazzie a Navy SEAL. Hawk has accepted that as long as he’s a SEAL he can’t commit to a relationship. Something that Zoe Weaver makes him wish he could rethink.

Zoe is a physical therapist. Her brother Brett is injured during an op and transported back to the US in a coma. She’s a Marine Corp brat like me who’s determined not to get involved with any man in uniform. But Hawk triggers feelings she’s never experienced before.

The book I hope points out that SEALs are human, not super heroes. But what makes them different is the calling they have to do the job no matter what. And Hawk has heard that calling and is dedicated to his team. But he also wants to find out why Brett ended up in a building about to blow up with his head bashed in.

The inspiration for the book came from a conversation I had with my mother about my father’s service in the Marines. And a memory I have of him leaving us for his second tour of duty in Vietnam.

We hadn’t seen him in eighteen months and he got leave to come home for Christmas. During the time he was home, we kids clung to him. We just couldn’t get close enough. The days were way too short and the time for him to return to duty getting closer by the minute.

Finally, the day came we had to drive him to Knoxville to catch a plane for California. As kids we tried not to cry because it made it harder for my mother, as well as Daddy. We walked him to the gate and said our last good-byes. I clung to him for the longest time, just breathing in his scent and holding on to this hand as hard as possible. The brass buttons on his coat pressed into my cheek so hard it left a red spot for a while afterward.

He climbed the steps to the plane and turned to wave one last time to us.

Tears were streaming down his face. And ours. That was my first understanding of how hard it was for him each time he walked away from us. He was a Marine and accepted the calling, the tradition, and the sacrifice, but he loved us---Really loved us.

The struggle between duty and love is something every service man or woman experiences every time they leave family behind and get on a plane to go to faraway places to fight for their country.

I wanted to bring the struggle, the pain and guilt it sometimes triggers to life in a way I’d never read in a book. And show the way soldiers must deal with it and continue to do their job.

This book is the first book of a series. I’ve already started the second book, "Breaking Through" ---Ensign Brett “Cutter” Weaver’s story. And have the third book, "Breaking Away", Harold “Flash” Carney’s story, plotted.

I’d love to hear from readers as to what I should title the series!!!

What a great reminder about our service men and women, and the sacrifices they (and their families) make to protect and serve our country. I loved the story about your father, Teresa, and the impact those experiences made on you. Since Navy SEALS have been in the news a lot lately, I think it's also a very fitting time to point out that they are real people - with families... feelings... strengths... weaknesses... hopes... dreams - just like everyone else. Yes, they're heroes, but if we only put them on the "super hero pedestal", it's easy to take for granted that they are people.

Thanks, Teresa, for stopping by today. I'm thrilled to help promote your latest book! And to my blog readers... as I said, I've read the book, and it is tremendous. If you love military romantic suspense, check it out. And if you've never read military romantic suspense, this is the book to start with!

You can find Teresa J. Reasor online at the following places: Website, Blog, Facebook, and Myspace.

Weekend Wanderings: Anne Frank House

2011-06-18T16:37:00.005-04:00

It's been a while since I did a "Weekend Wanderings" post. In the spirit of discussing young adult literature that has changed countless lives, I decided to take a look at the Anne Frank house in Amsterdam.

Visiting the place where Anne Frank and her family hid from the Nazis has been a dream since I first read the book - during my freshman year of high school. I imagine seeing it in person would change something inside me. I love experiences like that. Hopefully someday I'll get to visit there and "feel" it first hand.

To Know We're Not Alone: #YASaves

2011-06-14T15:13:00.007-04:00

The YA community has continued to rally, even as the initial sting of the Wall Street Journal article has faded somewhat. Last week, I bought one of the books mentioned in the article, both because I wanted to read it and because I felt compelled to support the author. I suspect I'm one of many, many people who did just that, so perhaps the effect of the article has been the opposite of what the author intended.

Adolescence is hard, under the best of circumstances. Kids go through all sorts of different things, but for kids who read, they have one big thing in common...

"We read to know we are not alone." ~ C.S. Lewis

The kid who's living through his parents' divorce...

The kid whose mom died in a car wreck...

The kid who lives in a foster home because his dad's in jail...

The kid who's failing algebra...

The kid whose biggest problem is getting his homework done...

The kid who comes to school hungry...

The kid who just moved to a new school and has no friends...

The kid whose boyfriend just dumped her...

The kid who's overweight and made fun of regularly...

The kid who wears glasses...

The kid who wants to be good at sports, but despite his best efforts, just isn't...

The kid who contemplates suicide and cuts because she thinks it relieves the pain...

The girl who dreams big...

The boy who can't wait to grow up...

The girl whose parents love and adore her...

The boys whose parents are so proud of him...

No matter the situation... good or bad...

They read to know they're NOT ALONE.

#YASaves indeed.

Shame on me... or the Wall Street Journal?

2011-06-05T20:38:00.007-04:00

My name is Amy, and I write Young Adult fiction.

Sounds like the beginning of a twelve-step recovery program, doesn't it? A recent article published in the Wall Street Journal attempted to make all Young Adult authors feel like we needed one.

Much has been said already, on Facebook and on the blogs of many, many other authors of Young Adult fiction. The "Twitterverse" practically exploded with tweets supporting YA fiction, bearing the hashtag #YASaves and including @WSG, so the tweets went directly to the Wall Street Journal. I'm sure I can't add much to the discussion, but I had a few thoughts I just had to get out in order to be able to sleep tonight without rolling it over and over again in my mind.

1. There are plenty of really great, appropriate books for 13 years olds. A good bookseller can recommend them. The parent mentioned at the beginning of the article might've benefited from a recommendation of Rick Riordan's "Percy Jackson" or "Kane Chronicles" series, or the Jeff Kinney "Diary of a Wimpy Kid" series, or any number of age-appropriate books. I find it convenient that the author of the article leaves out an entire section of the genre, focusing only on the types of YA books she wants to attack. I would've expected the Wall Street Journal to present ALL the facts, not only the ones that supported the author's limited point of view.

2. Every person I know, either personally or through online connections, who writes YA fiction does so not only for the entertainment of teens and tweens, but for the enlightenment of them as well. There is a message of hope and encouragement even in the darkest of stories... a lesson to be learned... an optimism to which readers can hold on. And it's no accident that those messages are in YA books. The authors put them there on purpose. To discount or ignore that is not okay.

3. If a book deals with drug abuse, eating disorders, or rape, it does not "normalize" such behaviors. To suggest that it is "... possible - indeed, likely..." for a book to make the darkest experiences a teen may go through "normal" is insulting, to both the author and the reader.

4. Yes, parents have a responsibility to help their kids choose good reading materials. I do that all the time with my own son. And sure, there are some books out there I would not want him to read. But in no way do I believe that any author or publisher is trying to "bulldoze" ugliness or suffering into any kid's life. In fact, quite the opposite. See # 2.

As an author of Young Adult fiction, I took this article personally. It was impossible not to. Even though I'm not yet published, I felt as though the author of this article was shaking her finger in my face in a "shame on you" motion, as if I (and every other YA author out there) had somehow done something terrible. No one has the right to make me feel that way. You may not like someone's writing. You may disagree with someone's writing. But you don't condemn it.

Priorities

2011-05-16T10:32:00.005-04:00

I always hate those stretches of time when I’m silent here on my blog, because (and I mean this with all honesty) I always have something to say. This morning, when I finally had time to sit down and really think about a new blog post, I decided perhaps it was the silence I would address.

Life is all about priorities. I wear a lot of hats… wife, mom, teacher, writer, and plenty of others at any given time. Most people have multiple responsibilities that they attend to, and at various times, depending on the situation, some of those responsibilities “move up” the ladder of importance. For instance, when a parent has a sick child, all else pretty much ceases to be important. Or when a big report is due at work – or in my case, when a big program is being presented at school – our time and energy is spent on that. This is natural. It’s the way of the world. Sometimes different parts of our lives take a backseat to others. It’s up to us to decide when that’s necessary, and to make sure that the other responsibilities we have don’t completely fall to the wayside.

So, my blog’s been silent lately. I’ve had a sick child – the umpteenth incident of strep throat in my house over the last year. I’ve also recently directed a sizeable choir program… one we spent the entire year learning, perfecting, and producing. I had to prioritize. I had to put on the correct “hat” at the correct “time”. But even during those hectic times, I still made time for the other “stuff” in my life.

We make time for what’s important… family, friends, jobs, etc. For me, writing is always on that list. Even in the midst of strep throat and big job responsibilities, I made what time I could for my writing. I made sure to have fresh material to submit to my bi-monthly writers group. And on the night of the meeting, I was there, even though I had yet to go home from work yet. I do these things because they’re important to me.

Priorities. We all have them, and sometimes they shift. But if it’s important to you, it stays on the list, and you keep making time for it, even when it’s tough.

It’s good to be back. Have a great week… happy reading and writing!

Risk - Determination - Destiny

2011-04-18T13:29:00.004-04:00

I've thought a lot about destiny lately. Destiny is one of those romantic, whimsical sounding words that gets thrown around a lot. We tend to think of destiny as this vague, ever-after kind of concept, where what's beyond the mist of the future is unknown to us. And to some degree, there is an air of mystery to destiny. But there's a large part of it that we control ourselves.

Achieving our destiny requires risk. Writers "risk" every time we sent out a submission... every time we have our work critiqued. No one likes to hear less than positive things about their work, and yet with this risk comes the possibility of improvement, and with improvement comes the possibility of achieving the destiny we long for.

There's no magical formula for achieving destiny, but if there was it would probably be blood, sweat, and tears, along with a heavy dose of good fortune. The risk means nothing without the determination to see it through. Determination to keep trying... keep writing... keep learning.

Ludwig van Beethoven had a destiny in mind for himself... to be a concert pianist and famous composer. Despite a lousy childhood plagued by an abusive father and a lost opportunity to study with the great Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart, Beethoven was well on his way to acheiving his destiny. Then tragedy. He began to lose his hearing. The man with no family, no close friends, with only music as his companion was going deaf. Did it make him mad? I'm sure. Was he sad? Wouldn't you be? Did he give up? No. Thanks to the brilliant mind he was born with, he continued to compose music even after he was profoundly deaf. He found a way to keep music in his life, and though he'd lost part of his dream, he didn't lose it all. His 9th (and final) symphony, the "Ode to Joy", premiered in Vienna, Austria, in 1824. Beethoven sat facing the orchestra, imagining in his mind the beauty he had created. When the music ended he was completely unaware of the thunderous applause and standing ovation of the massive audience, until someone told him to stand up, turn around, and take a bow. When he did, he realized his dream had come true. He had achieved his destiny.

Beethoven's destiny turned out a little different than he originally imagined, but he achieved it nonetheless. He risked. He was determined. He achieved.

What are you willing to do to achieve your destiny?

FRIDAY 56: Four Comedies, William Shakespeare

2011-04-08T07:14:00.009-04:00

* Take the book nearest to you and turn to page 56.

* Choose a sentence or two to share, and leave a comment so I can visit your Friday 56! If you don't have your own blog, you can leave yours in the comments section here.

* NO SPOILERS!

Today's Friday 56 is a little different. Beside my computer chair I have a small magazine rack. In it are books, of course! Many of those books have already made appearances on my Friday 56, so today I reached toward the bottom of the rack, and came up with "Four Comedies: William Shakespeare". After my grandmother passed away last year, I took a few books from her bookshelf. This was one of them. It has "A Midsummer Night's Dream", "As You Like It", "The Tempset", and "Twelfth Night". This particular book was a part of the 3rd printing and was published in 1962. It has the wonderful smell of "old pages" that makes you just want to jump in and stay awhile! Here's my selection for today, from "A Midsummer Night's Dream".

From page 56:

Demetrius: Abide me, if thou darest;

for well I wot

Thou runn'st before me, shifting every place,

And darest not stand, nor look me in the face.

Where are thou now?

Friday 56 Host: Freda's Voice

Crossing the Bar: Alfred Lord Tennyson

2011-04-06T07:09:00.004-04:00

My youngest son and I enjoy reading poetry together. Yes, he's only 4 years old, but he can quote many poems from memory and can tell you the names of the poets for all his favorites.

Yesterday, as word circulated that another student from our local high school had died in a car accident (the third student this school year) I thought of one of the poems I often read with my son.

"Crossing the Bar" by Alfred Lord Tennyson captures beautifully the bittersweet hopefulness of that moment when earthly life ends and life in heaven begins.

"Crossing the Bar"

Alfred Lord Tennyson

Sunset and evening star,

And one clear call for me!

And may there be no moaning of the bar,

When I put out to sea.

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,

too full for sound and foam,

When that which drew from out the boundless deep

Turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,

And after that the dark!

And may the be no sadness of farewell,

When I embark;

For though from out our bourne of Time and Place

The flood may bear me far,

I hope to see my Pilot face to face

When I have crossed the bar.

For an added layer of beauty, take a moment and listen to a musical setting of Tennyson's poem, by the exceptional Gwyneth Walker.

You Know You're a Mom When...

2011-04-04T14:17:00.005-04:00

It's Spring Break, and how did I spend my first day? Doctoring my 8 year-old, who is actually NOT on Spring Break yet. Sore throat began on Saturday, continued off and on throughout the weekend, and was worse this morning. So, he stayed home from school and off to the doctor we went. And guess what? Strep throat. Second time in 4 weeks. Poor little guy.

I thought about all the "doctoring" we moms do, and decided this could be a fun blog post. So here goes!

You know you're a mom when...

1. You can diagnose strep before the doctors.

2. You know the flavors of all the different antibiotics, and you know which ones need to be flavored so your kid won't throw them back up immediately.

3. You can identify a fever with the touch of your hand, or by pressing a cheek to the feverish one's forehead.

4. You really aren't grossed out by vomit anymore.

5. Snot-wipeage becomes a regular part of your day during the winter and/or allergy season.

6. You use enough Lysol and Clorox wipes that you wish you'd bought stock in the companies.

7. You are ready, at the drop of a hat, to treat a whole host of ailments - everything from diarrhea to sore throat to constipation - thanks to the vast array of kids meds you have on hand.

8. You lose count of how many times you say "Cover your mouth when you cough!" during the course of a day.

9. You are adept at labeling disposable cups with a sharpie so that no one else inadvertently drinks from the sick kid's glass.

10. You cater to your sick one with large amounts of Sprite, macaroni-and-cheese, and popsicles.

Just a short list... there are many, many more! I'd love to hear yours!

The Highest Praise... words from my son

2011-03-30T21:18:00.006-04:00

My oldest son is in the 7th grade. As a part of his Language Arts curriculum he's required to do some amount of writing. I'm always interested in reading what he's written. He's good at putting words together and creating interesting descriptions. I like to think he got that from me!

Today he came home with a "reflective" writing piece. His assignment was to "write a piece about the person who has most influenced you as a writer". He wrote a letter to me.

The opening line of the letter was... "You are the reason I'm such a good writer." I was wowed from that moment on. He went on to describe the speech I helped him write in the 4th grade, and how at the time he thought some parts of it were "silly", but the speech turned out great, and to this day the teachers use his speech as an example for other elementary students who are writing their speeches.

But the heart-melting moment came toward the end of the letter, when he said... "I know you write books and they haven't been accepted yet. They will be soon. When they are, I hope you become the most famous novelist ever."

The waterworks began when I read those words. The writer in me was proud. The mom in me was even prouder.

He understands the importance of the written word. Partly because he's seen how important it is to me, but mostly because he just "gets it". I'm thankful that my example has been a part of his growth as a creative individual with the ability to communicate through words.

And his words of support for my own writing reached deep into my heart and touched a place that had been dormant for a long time.

He amazes and inspires me on a regular basis... to the point that I think he can't amaze and inspire me any more than he already has.

Today he did.

I am blessed.

Read Out Loud

2011-03-28T20:47:00.005-04:00

Read your query letter out loud.

This was some very good advice we received from Scott Eagan of Greyhaus Literary Agency, at the annual Kentucky Romance Writers "Spring Into Writing" workshop.

Sometimes as writers we tend to get wordy. Imagine that! Query letters are tough to write, and in our efforts to put in all the information we think is necessary, sentences can become long, arduous, and difficult to interpret. That's why he suggested reading your query letter out loud. Hearing the words out loud can bring to light hard to understand phrases, wordy sentences, and things that just plain sound bad and would turn a potential agent or editor off.

It's great advice, and a healthy reminder that what looks good on paper doesn't always read well to the recipient. This is particularly true when we authors write a query letter about a book we know inside and out, backwards and forwards. What makes sense to us may not make sense to someone without the same intimate knowledge of our book.

So read your query letters out loud, to yourself and to other writers you trust, and craft a query letter that's clear, concise, and unique.

Happy reading and writing!

Horses, Bourbon, and Books

2011-03-22T19:58:00.012-04:00

Over the weekend, I attended the annual Kentucky Romance Writers "Spring Into Writing" Workshop. Our guest and speaker for the event was Scott Eagan, of Greyhaus Literary Agency. It was a most extraordinary weekend!

On Friday, several KYRW members toured Claiborne Farms, (pic to the right) in Paris KY, Three Chimneys Farm, in Midway KY, and the Woodford Reserve Distillery, (bottom photo) in Versailles KY. Now, I don't know a lot about horse racing, and to be honest, it's not something I've ever been terribly interested in. And to say bourbon is not one of my favorite things to drink would be a huge understatement. Despite these things, I had an absolutely fabulous time.

I was fascinated by the history of Claiborne Farms... entranced by the vibe the place gave off. I couldn't help but be impressed when the groom who was our tour guide showed us Pulpit, the stallion whose stud fee is $50,000, and Blame, the Breeder's Cup Classic Champion and the only horse to defeat the famed Zenyatta. It was also way cool to see Secretariat's grave.

At Three Chimneys farm, it was impossible not to marvel at the beauty of the stables. And I'll admit to a big "wow" moment when we got to meet Big Brown, (pic to the left) the 2008 KY Derby and Preakness winner... as well as meeting Dynaformer - Barbaro's sire - whose stud fee is $150,000! And it was... ahem... really educational to witness a stallion cover a mare and all that entailed! Call me uninformed, but I really had no idea all that was involved in breeding thoroughbreds.

The smell inside some of the distillery buildings at Woodford Reserve were realllllly strong and not so pleasant, but the process of distilling bourbon was fascinating! The three stills (pic to the left) that are used as a part of the process came from Scotland, and they were huge!

So what's my point?

I like to learn. Even when it's about things that maybe I've not been interested in before. Information is power, so I want all of it that I can get. It's part of the reason I love books so much. I can be entertained and educated at the same time.

In my next post, I'll talk more about what Scott Eagan had to say to us. He had some really valuable information for our members, and gave us a look at the publishing industry from the inside. I know we'll be talking about his workshop for a long time to come!

But for today I wanted to share a little about our Friday adventures, and point out the fact that information and learning is EVERYWHERE! And when you're a writer, so are stories. The horse farms and the distillery are experiences I won't soon forget!

Happy reading and writing!

2011-03-17T11:16:00.004-04:00

Here's the gist:

* Grab the book nearest you. Don't search for the newest or coolest one. Just get the closest!

* Turn to page 56. Choose a sentence or two to share.

* NO SPOILERS!

* If you host your own Friday 56, please leave me a comment so I can come by and take a look!

Today's FRIDAY 56 comes from "Lover Awakened", by J.R. Ward. I read this book a long time ago, but since I quoted Ward in my last post, and since her newest Black Dagger Brotherhood book releases this month, I thought it might be fun to revisit Zsadist and Bella for a few moments. Not to mention that the person I lent the book to just returned it to me, so it really was the closest book to my computer!

From page 56:

"Heart pounding in his chest, sweat blooming all over him, he looked for Bella and saw only inanimate objects: A wall of shelving that held nightmarish instruments. A cot. A fireproof metal closet the size of a car. An autopsy table with four sets of steel chains hanging off its corners... and blood smudged on its smooth surface."

I've said it before, and I'll say it again... if you haven't read Ward's Black Dagger Brotherhood series, you should. If you like vampires. And intrigue. And fighting. And romance. And... well, you get the picture!

Happy reading and writing everybody!

Quotable Discussions: J.R. Ward

2011-03-07T16:59:00.005-05:00

"The worst day writing is better than the best day doing anything else."

~ J.R. Ward

I've heard the NYT Bestseller say this more than once. Knowing how hard she works at her writing, and how serious she takes her art, I know it must be true.

Writing well isn't easy. It's hard work. But for those of us who write, it's work that we love. Work that fulfills us. Work that we look forward to. Many of us make time for this work that we love amid a host of other responsibilities... full-time jobs, raising children, caring for family members, etc. In the busiest times, we may ask ourselves, "Why bother with this when so much else is vying for my time?"

The answer for me is simple: Because I love the writing.

It'll always be a part of my life.

Spring Into Writing Workshop

2011-03-01T18:15:00.007-05:00

Kentucky Romance Writers presents

2011 Spring Into Writing Workshop

Featuring Scott Eagan of Greyhaus Literary Agency

March 19, 2011 (9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m., with a break from 12:00 p.m. - 1:00 p.m.)

$30 for KYRW Members

$40 for Non-Members

Where: Hyatt Place Conference Room

2001 Bryant Rd.

Lexington, KY 40509

859-296-0091

Please visit the KY Romance Writers website for more details on

pre-workshop activities, payment options, as well as directions to the hotel.

Scott Eagan, Literary Agent

Greyhaus Literary Agency

Scott draws on his extensive background in education, writing and literature to assist the writers at Greyhaus. He has a BA in English/Literature, a MA in Creative Writing and a MA in Literacy.

Scott is also a writer (done mostly as a hobby) and is an active member of Romance Writers of America.

Outside of his work at the agency, he continues teaching writing on a part-time basis, works as a stay-at-home dad and continues to be active in community work including the University of Puget Sound Alumni Program.

Scott is also a USA Swimming Official so you can frequently find him on the deck of a pool. If not there, you can frequently find him flexing his theater muscles in local community theater productions. If you are ever in the area, be sure to visit a show.

Following is a brief description of his presentation:

"Marketing Your Story to Editors and Agents"

During the session, participants will:

* Determine if they are ready to submit.

* Determine their own niche in the writing world.

* Learn how to find the best agent and editor for their work.

* Learn to write an effective query letter.

* Learn to write an effective synopsis.

* For those daring enough, bring a copy of your query letter to be read out-loud for an on-the-spot critique by Scott.

Pitch Sessions-Mr. Eagan will be taking pitch appointments, which will be scheduled on a first come, first served basis the day of the workshop.

Spring Awakening

2011-02-23T06:47:00.004-05:00

On my way home yesterday, I noticed that the little plot of daffodils at the end of my road is starting to make its appearance. Of course, there are no yellow blooms yet, only the green-beginnings, but they are there, a reminder that Spring is around the corner.

I always feel philosophical about Spring... perhaps because I look forward to it so much during the long winter months. But, like most people, I like the ideas of re-birth and new beginnings that seem inherent each time Spring rolls around. With each piece of green that bursts from the ground or sprouts on a tree limb, new life is breathed not only into the earth, but into my soul as well.

Spring is an awakening for me, too.

I'd forgotten all about that patch of daffodils at the end of my road, so the first appearance of their green stems was a sweet surprise. Every new beauty of Spring strikes me the same way... a sweet surprise, a welcome ray of sunshine, a new awakening.

So, here's to impending Spring. May our hearts, minds, souls, and creative impulses be awakened, just as the earth is awakened in color and warmth.

Happy reading and writing!

A Part of My Heart: Some Thoughts on Rejections

2011-02-11T16:31:00.009-05:00

This one's personal. Not that my other blog posts aren't, but this one hits pretty close right now.

My writing is a piece of me. It's a part of my heart. It's an extension of myself that comes from a place deep inside me... a place that defines so much of who I am. In no way am I unique in this aspect. I'd be willing to bet that all writers feel this way about their writing. When I look at my work, whether it's a printed version or just the document on my computer, I don't just see words. I don't just see chapters. I don't just see characters and a story. I see my dreams. I see the love and dedication and hard work that was poured into every sentence, every letter, and every comma. I see something that is in existence only because I imagined it... because I loved it enough to give it life, without any promise of receiving anything in return, other than the satisfaction of completing it. I see my heart.

I've never been shy. I've never been afraid of public speaking. I've never been afraid of competition. So, when I began the querying/submission process, I wasn't afraid. I knew I'd get rejections. I knew it would be an emotional roller coaster. I knew there would be highs and lows.

What I've discovered along the way is that just because you know the roller coaster is coming, doesn't make it any easier. Just because you're mentally prepared for the "lows", doesn't make them any less low.

My philosophy when I began was just to send out a query/submission, then not worry about it... just put it out of my mind and not think about it. I believed in my book. It meant something to me. I believed (and still believe) it is in the best shape it could be in (prior to getting into the hands of an industry professional). I'd crafted (and re-crafted... and re-re-crafted) a query letter. So, I told myself to be very "clinical" in my approach to querying. Just send them out and don't fret.

Riiiiiiiiiiight.

Instead, what's happened over the past several months is that each time I get ready to send out a query letter or sample manuscript pages, I look at them, and see my heart. Each time I hit "send" it's a part of me that races out into cyber-space on its way to the inbox of a literary agent. Each time, it's a piece of my heart that faces rejection.

And each time rejection comes, it hurts.

I'm not complaining. Really, I'm not. Like I said earlier, I knew this would happen. It happens to everyone. It just seems we (and by we, I mean my writer-friends and I) never really talk about how the rejections hurt. In our attempt to be not only professional, but also strong and determined, we forget to actually share the lows. And I think maybe that's a mistake. We all need to vent... to let off steam. If we don't, the bottled emotions can become unhealthy and completely block our creativity. Not to mention just making us downright unpleasant.

Please understand, I'm not mad at anyone who's rejected my work. And I don't even begrudge them the form rejections that begin "Dear Author". I can't imagine the volume of query letters they get. I have trouble managing and keeping up with the email I receive from my list-serves!

It's all a part of the process... the writing journey. I'm glad to be a part of it. And despite the rejections, I'm not deterred. I'll "keep on keeping on". Because the writing is important to me.

But I just wanted to say, publicly, that for all of us writer-folk, our writing is a part of us. It's our heart on paper. And rejections hurt. Brushing that hurt under the rug won't help. Better to just acknowledge it and move on.

So that's what I'm doing.

Rejections hurt. And they always will.

But I write. And I always will.

Individuality

2011-02-04T10:32:00.008-05:00

A line from my current work-in-progress:

"Once high school is over, your social status here won't matter to anyone anymore. All that will matter is who you are inside. And if this is the way you treat people, most of you won't have anything inside you to be proud of."

It's a Young Adult book, of course, and my main character, Phoebe, is not exactly at the top of the social ladder. Far from it, actually. But she's about to graduate, and at one point she's just pushed too far by the people who always pass judgement on her. You see, she's okay with who she is, and other people's opinions don't define her self-worth. But as "okay" as she is, the comments and insults still sting. And sometimes she just can't be silent.

When I wrote that line, I thought about it in terms of my own students. Of course, I have a wide variety of ages, maturity levels, and personalities in my classes - that's one of the things that makes teaching both interesting and difficult! It's interesting to watch them grow and develop their own identities, their own senses of self-worth. And it's so cool to see them really get to the point that they don't define themselves based on what other people think of them. Naturally, it's not a singular event, but rather a process, and it's one I don't think anyone is ever truly finished with. But just like my character, there are moments that really cement the fact that it's who we are on the inside that counts.

It's a common theme in my writing. You don't have to be just like everyone else. It's okay to be different, as long as you're being "you". And sometimes, being "you" isn't popular. But guess what? That's okay too.

This character is a fun one to write, but not always easy. Her efforts to be above the superficial ways of many teenagers mean that she sometimes struggles with being a "reverse snob", and falling into the same trap as those who torment her - thinking herself somehow "better". But I'm committed to taking her to the end of this journey, and to the place where the world opens up for her because, she's defined herself with things that really matter, and not with things that only exist on the surface.

Here's to you Phoebe. We're in this together.

Blog Tour: Mary Martinez

2011-02-03T05:57:00.003-05:00

Welcome, Mary Martinez, to my little corner of the cyber-world!

I met Mary last summer at RWA Nationals, and we've enjoyed keeping in touch since. I'm excited to have her here today as she promotes her newest release, Classic Murder: Mr. Romance. Read on to learn a little bit more about Mary and her writing.

Mary: Thanks, Amy, for hosting the fourth day of my blog tour. Anyone who would like to know the schedule can check it out here. Each blog is a different question from the host. Sort of like a continuing interview. I will also have two giveaways at the end of the blog tour. At the bottom, I’ll tell you how you can participate.

Amy: How have books/reading/writing played a significant role in your life?

Mary: Wow, I’m not sure how to answer this. I can’t imagine what my life would have been like without reading. My earliest recollections of my favorite books were, Boxcar Children and Harriet the Spy. Mmm, I love suspense - maybe I get that from Harriet, LOL.

Actually growing up I would love to read about anything. I tried to write a few things for a youth magazine when I was in high school. Nothing panned out on that. Then I got married.

I read a lot of romance during that period of my life. I read Kathleen E. Woodiwiss, Johanna Lindsay and Heather Graham (her old historical romances). Now I read her contemporary suspense.

When the kids were young I tried my hand at an historical, this was before computers. You cannot take three young kids to the library to research. Add that to the fact it was the worst drivel you ever want to read. I determined I’d wait until they were older and it turned out that they were grown and out of the house before I could find time to write.

When my oldest was about 10, I went through a divorce and had to find a full time job. Then I met my husband. We both had three kids and we ended up with the Brady bunch—yes they all lived with us. When to find the time to write?

To tell you the truth waiting until later to write is the best thing. I’ve learned so much, not to mention I’ve experienced more of life.

I’m not sure if that answered your questions or not. LOL.

Thanks again, Amy for having me today.

Here is a blurb for my new release Classic Murder: Mr. Romance

Adam enjoys a lifestyle most men only dream of. Then one day he wakes up to find the morning headlines blaring, "Another victim falls prey to Mr. Romance. Who is next?" He suddenly realizes his way of life is not only frivolous, but deadly.

Dubbed Mr. Romance by New York society for his romantic adventures, Adam Fernando Russo loves women. But lately he realizes how lonely it is coming home to an empty house. Can he settle for only one woman? After he makes a list of qualities worthy enough to merit giving up his desirable existence, suddenly recipients of his coveted attention mysteriously fall prey to a murderer. The murders seem unrelated with one exception--all the victims have recently returned from a fabulous weekend rendezvous with Mr. Romance.

Adam’s assistant, Katie Sinclair, knows Adam is innocent with airtight alibis. The police are at a loss so Adam and Katie work together to discover the link between the murders. As luck would have it, their plan to prove the murderer is copying classic Cary Grant movies goes astray just as Adam realizes his perfect woman has been by his side all along.

Available from BookStrand Publishing (Electronic Format, Print coming in spring 2011) http://www.bookstrand.com/classic-murder-mr-romance

For an excerpt and to see the trailer visit my web site: http://www.marymartinez.com/mrromance.html

Now to the giveaways, everyone one who participates by commenting on each day of the tour will have their name placed in a drawing for a Photo Album and a signed copy of Watching Jenny.

Everyone who participates and comments on half of the days will have their name in a drawing for a download of Classic Murder: Mr. Romance (or they can wait until it’s in print for a signed copy)

Guest-Blogging at Mary's Garden

2011-01-28T07:43:00.002-05:00

Today I'm guest blogging at Mary's Garden. Mary Martinez is a fellow-writer I met in Orlando at the RWA National Conference last July. We've kept in touch since then, and I'm honored she asked me to be a guest at her blog. Mary will be here the first week in February, to guest blog as a part of a "blog tour" as her newest book releases in e-book format!

Come by and chat with us at Mary's Garden!

Tools of the Trade

2011-01-24T09:51:00.004-05:00

I have a serious affection for office supplies. Not necessarily paper clips and file folders, but things like notebooks, post-its, pens and pencils. I love the various sizes, shapes, colors. I love to stand in the aisle at the store and just look.

Because when I look at all that "stuff", I see possibilities. Blank pages are waiting to be filled. Post-it notes are waiting for me to jot down story ideas or "addendums", then affix them to an easy-to-see place. Pens and pencils are waiting to be used up as I plot and plan.

Sure, I use a computer for my writing. I don't know anyone who doesn't. But there's something about being able to put my "hands" on a story idea... something about being able to flip the pages in a notebook and read and re-read about the characters and ideas and plotlines I've sketched out. Which is why I keep a notebook for each book I'm working on. The notes inside it start off very organized and easy to understand, but as the story develops and changes, my notes become kind of random and sporadic, scribbled furiously wherever there's a blank spot.

Some things stick around until I check them off the list. Others get vetoed completely. And I love it! I love looking through the notebook and seeing this crazy stream of consciousness that becomes my book. (Or looking back on the notebooks that have already become a book!)

It's a physical reminder that I've got something really cool going on in my head. And, for me, it's a great way to keep my thoughts organized and together. It's also a sentimental reminder - left behind after the book is finished - of the story and characters I loved and spent so much time with.

Happy writing and reading everyone! Have a great week!

The Power of Place: Inspiration is Everywhere

2011-01-16T08:48:00.007-05:00

I haven't traveled a lot, but it's certainly not because of a lack of desire. Traveling and experiencing new places and cultures is one of the things I most want to do... when time and finances will allow. Here on my blog, I occasionally feature a post called "Weekend Wanderings" where I upload pictures of places I'd like to visit some day. I haven't done one of those posts in a while, so this morning, as I was considering the possibilities for a new "Weekend Wanderings", it occurred to me that it might be interesting to post images of some of the places I have been.

And yes, even though I'm not the world traveler I'd like to be, I have visited some really cool places. Here's a sample!

Castillo de San Marcos - St. Augustine, Florida

Cafe du Monde - New Orleans, Louisiana

Downtown Emporia, Kansas

Seabrook Island, South Carolina

Charleston, South Carolina

I went to St. Augustine in college. It was a family trip to visit some of our extended family. St. Augustine is beautiful and historic, and the Castillo de San Marcos was a highlight of the trip.

The Cafe du Monde' in New Orleans was also a trip I took in college. However, this trip was with a group from my university. The highlight of the trip was the day that we got to spend sight-seeing in the French Quarter. Midway through the day, we stopped for a snack of beignets and cafe au lait at the Cafe du Monde'. While we were there my then-boyfriend proposed to me. That was almost 17 years ago, (we've now been married 14 1/2 years!) and one of my most special memories.

I've been to Kansas to visit friends on several occasions. Emporia is one of the towns I've spent some time in. I always enjoy the mid-western way of life when I'm there. It's similar in many ways to live in the Southern US, but also has it's own identity.

Seabrook Island and Charleston, South Carolina are perhaps my favorite places I've had the privilege of visiting. I first went to Seabrook on my honeymoon, and have been back twice since. Seabrook is an island off the coast of the Charleston area, and on each trip we'd spend a day in Charleston. I love the ocean... it's magnificence, it's vastness. I love Charleston... it's history, it's atmosphere. These are magical places.

One of the reasons I long to travel is that stories are EVERYWHERE! When I look at the pictures above, I see story possibilities in each one. Whether it's a beautiful, peaceful beach, or a street in a small town, there are characters and stories just waiting to be brought to life. Somehow, I just know that in all of my dream vacation locations - whether it's the lush green of Ireland or the aesthetic beauty of Italy - I'd find inspiration, characters, and stories that could eventually find their way onto my page.

Fortunately (though I will always want to travel the world) I don't have to go far from home to find this kind of inspiration. The small rural communities near my hometown offer endless ideas and possibilities. The bustling cities that are a short drive from where I live teem with life and activity that scream "stories" to me.

Places - and the people and lifestyles that inhabit them - inspire me more than just about anything. Creativity can come from anywhere. And aren't I glad?!

Happy reading and writing everyone!

Teaser Time: THE HOMECOMING by JoAnn Ross

2011-01-11T06:19:00.010-05:00

1) Take your current read

2) Open to a random page

3) Post a sentence or two

4) No spoilers... just teasers!

5) Teaser Time Host

Today's TEASER TIME book, "The Homecoming" by super-awesome JoAnn Ross, is a terrific story about a reluctant war-hero's return to his hometown and his reunion with the girl he never had but never wanted to leave. Oh, and there's the matter of the human bones his dog digs up on the beach. GREAT read, just like every other JoAnn Ross title I've read!

"That's it, isn't it You may have fought terrorism all over the world,

you may have battled bad guys, but you're afraid of a simple parade."

Bulls-eye. "No." He folded his arms over his chest. "I'm not."

"Then why do you suddenly have that Bambi-in-the-headlights look

in your eyes?"

"I'm not afraid. I just don't like being the center of attention."

Quotable Discussions: Mark Twain

2011-01-10T09:20:00.006-05:00

We've all heard it before. "Dream big." "Never give up on your dreams." "If you can dream it, you can acheive it." All of these sayings are good reminders, but I think sometimes we hear them so much they lose their zing and pass into our ears and right back out again without affecting us at all.

Today's "Quotable Discussions" is all about dreaming. And for this post, I've turned my thoughts to Mark Twain. Years ago, when I was a freshman in high school, the first book I was assigned to read for my English class was "The Adventures of Tom Sawyer" . I'd read a few books before, and had discovered that I kind of liked reading for pleasure. So, unlike most of my class, I wasn't turned off by this assignment. I rather enjoyed it! And because I had a time frame for reading the book, I discovered that I could read quickly and finish a book in no time!

Mark Twain himself was born an ordinary boy (Samuel Clemens) into an ordinary family in 1835. The son of a judge, he suffered poor health as a child, and though he eventually recovered enough to attend school, his father fell ill with pneumonia and died when Samuel was 12 years old. The following year, Samuel left school, choosing instead to become a printer's apprentice. Two years later, he joined his brother's newspaper, working as an editorial assistant, and discovered a love of writing that sparked one of literature's greatest.

Did Samuel Clemens know from the time he was a young child that he would become a famous author whose works would stand the test of time? Probably not. But that didn't stop him from becoming Mark Twain. I think the quote below reminds us not just to "dream big" and "never give up", but also to realize that even though we don't know what the future will hold, years from now it would be terribly disappointing to regret that we didn't try at all to acheive our dreams, and far better to know that we gave it our all.

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."

~ Mark Twain

One of the things that attracts me most to Young Adult fiction (both reading it and writing it) is that it inspires that attitude. The young people reading YA fiction are at the age where nothing seems impossible and dreaming is encouraged. I love the thought that a book can plant, water, and nurture the seeds of dreaming and acheivement in a young heart, and encourage readers to "catch the trade winds" in their sails, and "explore... dream... discover."

Friday 56: HAPPY EVER AFTER

2011-01-07T06:09:00.009-05:00

It's been a few weeks, but I'm finally back with a new FRIDAY 56!

Here's the gist:

1. Grab the book nearest you right now.

2. Turn to page 56

3. Post a sentence (or a few) along with these instructions.

4. Don't dig for your favorite book, the coolest book, the most intellectual. Use the closest!

5. No Spoilers!

6. If you host your own FRIDAY 56, be sure to leave a comment so I can stop by your blog! If you don't have a blog, you can leave it in the comments section here.

Today's FRIDAY 56 comes from "Happy Ever After" by Nora Roberts. It's the final book in the "Bridal Quartet", a series of books about four best friends who own a wedding business. Mackensie is a photographer. Emma is a florist. Laurel is a pastry chef. And Parker is the "business-brain". The four books take us through each woman's journey to her very own happily-ever-after! If you like feel-good books with deep, rich characters, I highly recommend this series. The book titles are as follows (in order): "Vision in White", "Bed of Roses", "Savor the Moment", and "Happy Ever After".

From Page 56:

"What? Do you think I'm keeping that to myself?" She grinned as both Mac and Emma demanded details.

"Malcolm Kavanaugh, in the foyer, with a hot embrace."

"Well, well." Mac wiggled her eyebrows.

"There's no 'well-well' about it." Wanting to move on, Parker pulled out her casually dismissive tone. "He was just showing off."